Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
That is correct
...no new male partners to be exact.
That is also correct. And I have repeatedly commented on how I worry about her well being in this with a man who has my boundaries.
"Who has my boundaries"? Who has your boundaries?
I am fully aware of that and it is my burden. Things seem simple to those that share their sexuality easily so I understand their confusion.
The focus of this thread is not for me to justify my boundaries, but to explore the validity of my offered ways to work around them to some degree.
In a polite euphemism-laid Canadian way.
We're all adults here. It's about SEX.
You're doing nothing but offering her a choice. Black and white. Sex with you, or sex with Leo. She wants sex with both. Brick wall.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37