My hubby and I have been married since '02. I have been in a relationship with Kensi since June '00, and my relationship with my hubby started a month before that. Almost 13 years of the poly lifestyle. The dynamic has evolved from hybrid open to a closed triad because my hubby is now dating my girlfriend. After 12 years, I was still hoping for it, but never knew if it would happen. Now, it finally has. It has always just been the three of us. No add'l parties.