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Old 05-20-2011, 03:03 AM
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Enjoying your "me time," Ari?
I was thinking more the joys of how useful a hand is in ummm.. The current hallways situation...

But yes I am thank you
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Old 05-20-2011, 06:47 AM
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saevuscorvax what is it about this that has your communication stumped? Is it the strangeness of it? You say you are over the size thing, but are you really? Does it feel like defeat that this man had a bigger cock than you? Are you in some way disappointed in her that she allowed him to do this too her body? Or something along those lines...

Do you feel that your not being able to satisfy each other the way you wish has put a wrench in an otherwise good relationship? What kind of issues have you had to work on before? Is this the first major one? Maybe its a matter of having not had to use bigger skills of communicating?

Maybe taking a break from trying to communicate might be an idea... perhaps just gaining closeness and connection again with each other might help... perhaps this has triggered something deeper about your connection that you are both not able to verbalize yet.
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Old 05-20-2011, 09:13 AM
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I was thinking more the joys of how useful a hand is in ummm.. The current hallways situation...
yes, hands are very useful tools. and so versatile - open, closed, wrapped around, inside cavities, outside cavities, 1-4 fingers in various combinations, and even an opposable digit.

perhaps i missed your point, but it was fun for me nonetheless.
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Old 05-20-2011, 01:38 PM
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yes, hands are very useful tools. and so versatile - open, closed, wrapped around, inside cavities, outside cavities, 1-4 fingers in various combinations, and even an opposable digit.

perhaps i missed your point, but it was fun for me nonetheless.
Nope... You got it haha
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Old 05-20-2011, 02:44 PM
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I think the OP should start fisting his wife, then she'll be too stretched-out for the boyfriend.
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Old 05-20-2011, 04:17 PM
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Old 05-20-2011, 05:28 PM
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I think the OP should start fisting his wife, then she'll be too stretched-out for the boyfriend.

I can't tell if you are joking and I should laugh or if you are serious and I should be offended. 0_0
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Old 05-20-2011, 05:41 PM
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I can't tell if you are joking and I should laugh or if you are serious and I should be offended. 0_0


If I were you, I'd be offended.
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Old 05-20-2011, 05:45 PM
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Old 05-20-2011, 05:54 PM
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Well I wasn't joking, so she has no other choice.
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