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Old 04-14-2011, 10:54 PM
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I think the distinction is a whore gets paid, a slut doesn't. So technically, I was never a whore.
Carma, sorry to inform you but if you are putting it out and not getting paid, that just makes you a stupid whore .

No, seriously, the existence of both of these labels just serves to show there is so much wrong in our current ideology around sexuality and gender roles and whatnots that I tend to get rather desperate. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. I wonder how anyone, especially a girl anyone, manages to grow up to feel good about herself and her sexuality.
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Old 04-14-2011, 11:07 PM
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I think the distinction is a whore gets paid, a slut doesn't.
Nah, there are paid whores and unpaid whores. Many people refer to hookers as whores, and there are def women who fuck for drugs ("coke whores"), but where I grew up, a whore's just a gal who "sleeps around" a lot, without discretion. Hence the term "whoring around," hahaha. Now, I may sleep around but, I'm choosy about with whom, so I'm a discriminating slut!
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Old 04-15-2011, 12:50 AM
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Hey Mags, you check this thread out yet? I'm not just a New York Slut anymore, I'm a Discriminating Slut™, too!
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Carma, sorry to inform you but if you are putting it out and not getting paid, that just makes you a stupid whore .
Just means she's getting something out of it you can't spend at a store.
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Carma, sorry to inform you but if you are putting it out and not getting paid, that just makes you a stupid whore .
*snorts Coke out of her nose*
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Old 04-15-2011, 07:03 PM
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So being paid money for sex is "smarter" than giving sex freely just because you actually LIKE the person?

Just because money was not involved, doesn't mean I wasn't getting something out of it. There was emotional payment, sometimes millions of dollars worth!

I wasn't sleeping with lecherous creeps off the street.

And -- often I wasn't even having SEX with them at all. I was called a whore in junior high, for just KISSING a boy, when I liked another one.

I was not a whore. I was not a stupid whore, either.
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Hey Mags, you check this thread out yet? I'm not just a New York Slut anymore, I'm a Discriminating Slut™, too!
*shakes booty*
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