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Old 04-24-2011, 04:20 PM
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Yup, the time will very soon come for me to say that no matter what he is thinking or wants to commit to, I cannot marry him on that day. I wanted it to be mutual for the sake of future possibilities in our relationship. I wanted to wait until after the therapy session that I hope he will join me in. I'm going to the therapist whether he is or not.

I'll check out Al-Anon. I will go today if I can.
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Old 04-24-2011, 04:47 PM
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koifish, I think that you should be proud of yourself for the giant steps you're willing to take. I wish you all the best.
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