How do I love? Please help!!!

[Kraven]

I understand poly and it's purpose, I dream to love and connect with the world but with a majority leaning toward monogamy how do I deal! How do find poly people or individuals open minded enough to participate in the liberation of it all? Is there an online community of sorts, a group/gathering for us or do I just take my chances with a monogamous society until I find someone willing to try a new road to love! I'm just tired of meaningless sex but I refuse to conform to a relationship orientation that I know I can't exist in! Does anyone have advise, options or maybe a single bi-sexual poly minded female friend ;~)

[River]

All of your questions are answered or addressed in various ways all over this forum. There are myriad organizations, groups, clubs..., books, magazines, websites....

Where do you live? If you could find this web site, odds are you should be able to use an internet search engine [e.g., www.google.com] to find groups or gatherings in your area.

As for how other people think about how you "should" love -- how much energy do you wish to give to their opinions?

A barrage of questions is usually less successful in generating assistance than one or two clearly stated questions.

Breathe. Relax. Open up. Learn. We are here for you. We are EVERYWHERE.