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Old 03-15-2011, 02:41 PM
virgo41 virgo41 is offline
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Default Hello Everyone

I have been married for 20 years, we started the swinging lifestyle about 13 years ago, mostly with single males, just me not hubby. I found myself feeling empty with one night stands and booty calls. An experience last summer with someone made me and us realize that we could make a poly relationship work. That relationship did not work out, the other person did not want that. I met someone last November and we have been seeing each other on a regular basis and we have fallen in love with each other. My husband and I both have talked with him about the eventual desire to have what we termed a three way marriage. Hubby is straight so it will be a situation where I guess I will have two husbands if it all works out. The other person seems like he's open to this. So I guess we'll see how things work out.

I hope to gain some insight from others who have had more experience in this than me.
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Old 03-16-2011, 03:37 AM
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Welcome to the Forum.
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Old 03-16-2011, 03:39 AM
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Good luck!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

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