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Old 06-02-2011, 11:04 PM
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.....II.....TP.......FT......is this an online V?
No, because you've got your "Thanks, but no thanks" shirt or whatever it is that you monos wear to ward us poly folk away. You are the garlic to our rabid beavers. Or something like that.

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Old 06-02-2011, 11:06 PM
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. You are the garlic to our rabid beavers.
HAHAHA that needs to be a t-shirt..
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Old 06-02-2011, 11:35 PM
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.....II.....TP.......FT......is this an online V?

have a great day TP, you make me smile.
Quad? I'm loving our TP. and not the toilet paper variety, although I love that too!
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Old 06-02-2011, 11:41 PM
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Quad? I'm loving our TP. and not the toilet paper variety, although I love that too!
Its sounds like an ethical polyamorous hugging orgy is about to commence..
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Old 06-02-2011, 11:53 PM
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Its sounds like an ethical polyamorous hugging orgy is about to commence..
Weeeeeeeee..... I so need one of those!
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Old 06-02-2011, 11:55 PM
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Its sounds like an ethical polyamorous hugging orgy is about to commence..
As long as no one has a rabid beaver.
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Old 06-03-2011, 12:00 AM
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As long as no one has a rabid beaver.
*spits out coffee* bwahahahahaha
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Old 06-03-2011, 12:57 AM
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Quads and hug orgies? I need a bigger shirt
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Old 06-03-2011, 04:55 AM
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I want to take a roadtrip TP, go to the west coast for a few weeks and hang out with people who, like you, cared enough for one scared Human being to reach out and offer hope.

This scares T. and in a way me too. We've never not once in the 20 yrs of marriage spent more then 10 days a part. Ts afraid I won't come back, I'm afraid she wont want me back.
So take a short road trip at first. Build her confidence and your own in steps. It doesn't have to be two weeks BAM. How about a weekend with friends, and you come back. Next time, a long weekend (3 or 4 days), then a week.
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Old 06-04-2011, 04:08 AM
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"If I ask T to stop/slow down, she would."

And as for stopping T from doing anything? Good luck with that. I tell this particular lie because I sound, at least to me more like a loving caring husband and less of a selfish bastard.

"And I'm not that guy"

yes I am. It's pretty clear by my actions I am exactly that guy. I'm just trying really hard not to be. But I am getting better at it.

"if I ask T to stop/slowdown, she would. But I cannot-will not ask that of her because it would only delay the inevitable and stop her from living the life she was meant to, and I'm not that guy."

Today you taught me something. Something I'm not sure I wanted to learn. But I did have too much wine, so ... m
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