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Critiques of the book forwarded to me:
http://novelactivist.com/blog/sex-at-dawn/ http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/127227181 http://ryviewpoint.blogspot.com/2011...as-sex-at.html http://shethought.com/forum/books-yo.../sex-at-dawn// http://www.overcomingbias.com/2010/1...-is-right.html Adding a few additional: http://www.pajiba.com/pajiba_dirty_t...dirty-talk.php http://jseliger.com/2010/07/21/sex-a...cacilda-jetha/ What's interesting to me that the majority of the critiques agree with the fundamental thesis but have problems with lack of rigor in terms of representing existing research or misusing a few bits out of context. The narrative still convinces... Interestingly, only a couple of the above are experts in the field. No peep out of the Evolutionary Psychologists (like David Buss) or Evo Biologists.
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The third, fourth and fifth links came up as dead-ends for me, MA.
The first reviewer agrees with the premise of the book, and says: Quote:
The next working link, #6, is written by a woman who hasn't read the book, just a few excerpts. She has a degree in bio-physics, not anthropology. Her premise is, primates, including humans, have varied sexual practices. This is not an earth shattering statement. And this quote from her is just amusing: Quote:
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Fixed.
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Yes I must admit it would be nice to see a leading human behaviorist and Anthropologist like Helen Fisher weigh in on the book. As probably the leading researcher into the biology of love and attraction her discoveries are based on current research involving brain mapping imagery of present day humans.
I imagine there is a reason why David Buss and others in the field are silent about the book as well. It could be that the book directly challenges their own theories and therefore they are avoiding it or it could be that the book doesn't warrant scientific debate at all. I'll let the experts decide that one.
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Perhaps the reason we haven't heard a peep out of the "experts" regarding this book is that they're all too busy eating their hats.
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As it stands, none of the critiques I have been able to uncover were done by someone who would be qualified to give a peer review of the work (by scientific journal standards). That doesn't mean that their critiques are wrong.
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Or fucking their brains out?
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Any literature that supports this concept definitely has the right idea
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Thanks, Mono, for not letting me dangle out there by ending the thread with my vulgarity! You are a true gent.
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You can blame RP for that (I had most of my brain intact before I met her) Shhhhh...that'll be our little secret
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