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Old 10-09-2011, 10:57 PM
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Oh no oh no!!!

Here's hoping the Doc says everything will be just fine!! Oh man, Tuesday can't come too soon...
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Old 10-10-2011, 12:27 AM
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Sounds like it could be a prolapse? Which often happens without outside help such as fisting, so I wouldn't leap to blaming yourself. Could just be a natural body thing. In any event, I hope the doc's appointment goes well. Waiting is never fun.
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Old 10-10-2011, 01:45 AM
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The uterus kind of floats on its attachments and moves around in the cavity there, so a prolapsed uterus is fairly common. Years ago, I leaned a type of abdominal massage meant to pop it back into place. Yes, of course, she should see a doctor, but it may not be as serious as you think.
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Old 10-10-2011, 12:20 PM
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Prolapse was my first thought as well. *hug* It's not your fault, even if it was caused by fisting. That's why it's an accident!

*more hugs!*
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Old 10-11-2011, 08:35 AM
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Ok, visited the ER last night, and her stuff is entirely normal, just badly inflamed and swollen, which makes it look/feel somewhat fierce. It's either yeast or BV, and she's getting treatment for both. I'm taking care of my own itchiness, too. No sex for now, instead we spent a fun and relieved night playing Japanese dating games and moaning about our respective itches.

Tonight it's a movie with Vanilla and Moonlight! I'm so happy and relieved .
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Old 10-11-2011, 08:59 AM
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Oh, good thing there's nothing more serious! Have a nice evening!
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Old 10-11-2011, 09:23 PM
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Ok, visited the ER last night, and her stuff is entirely normal, just badly inflamed and swollen, which makes it look/feel somewhat fierce. It's either yeast or BV, and she's getting treatment for both. I'm taking care of my own itchiness, too. No sex for now, instead we spent a fun and relieved night playing Japanese dating games and moaning about our respective itches.

Tonight it's a movie with Vanilla and Moonlight! I'm so happy and relieved .
What's BV? Maybe just being dense right now. (Long day at work!)

At any rate, so glad it wasn't more serious!! Ever think you'd be glad your gf had a yeast infection????
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Old 10-11-2011, 09:26 PM
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What's BV? Maybe just being dense right now. (Long day at work!)

At any rate, so glad it wasn't more serious!! Ever think you'd be glad your gf had a yeast infection????
BV is Bacterial Vaginosis. It's just another bacterial type infection you can get pretty easily from stuff getting in there that shouldn't.
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Old 10-12-2011, 06:17 PM
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BV is Bacterial Vaginosis. It's just another bacterial type infection you can get pretty easily from stuff getting in there that shouldn't.
Ah yes. That's the one that smells really bad. I knew that, I was just drawing a blank at the acronym. Thanks!
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Old 10-13-2011, 09:26 PM
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So what's this about wedding plans that you talked about in another blog??
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