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Old 04-09-2014, 04:25 AM
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Default I would love a steady poly thing w 2 men who are friends...does this exist?

Do many guys feel comfortable w their buddies to enter into something with a female. I would love a MFM or a couple where the girl is bi. Do many know of a poly relationship w 2 guys and a girl that works out?
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Old 04-09-2014, 05:00 AM
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I know of situations with two guys and a girl. Also, with a guy and two bi girls (I'm assuming when you speak of a couple and a bi girl, that you would prefer the other woman to also be bi).
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Old 04-09-2014, 05:06 AM
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Yes ma'am. Bi is essential for me to be equally involved.
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Old 04-09-2014, 12:48 PM
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I've been seeing a married mf couple for 10 years, I'm male.
When all three of us interact equally we call it "we3". When I interact with J (female) alone we refer to each other as 'lovers'. J's husband, T, refers to me as 'his wife's lover' and she as 'your lover'. T and I together refer to J as 'our mistress'. J calls us affectionately ' my two guys'.
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Old 04-10-2014, 03:16 AM
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Do many guys feel comfortable w their buddies to enter into something with a female... Do many know of a poly relationship w 2 guys and a girl that works out?
I don't know about "many" but that is my situation...
For me, this isn't something that I went looking for - my subconscious assumption was that I, being bisexual, might someday end up with a husband AND a wife...then I fell for my husband's best friend. Life has a way of surprising you.
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Old 04-10-2014, 03:44 AM
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We're a V, two guys, 1 girl.
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:58 PM
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We are a V also..2 guys, 1 girl. We are going on 4 yrs together and going strong.
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Old 04-10-2014, 09:39 PM
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I am in a v as the hinge between my two husbands.

They didn't know each other before I met Murf. They get along just fine.
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Old 04-11-2014, 03:47 PM
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I don't know about "many" but that is my situation...
For me, this isn't something that I went looking for - my subconscious assumption was that I, being bisexual, might someday end up with a husband AND a wife...then I fell for my husband's best friend. Life has a way of surprising you.
I also fell for a very close male friend of my husband's. I wasn't even really looking for someone else. Now been in a poly relationship for 2 years
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Old 04-11-2014, 10:56 PM
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if I had a male friend who wanted me in his relationship I'd be more then happy to be involved lol
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