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Old 04-03-2014, 05:23 PM
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I spoke with my metamour and he said the same thing; you really do not get responses if you talk about polyamory in your messages. That is, of course, unless someone explicitly states they are polyamorous in their profile (or you already know them).
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Old 04-04-2014, 11:46 PM
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Don't give up, Tonberry. I wrote to Ginger because he'd 4 or 5-starred me . . .
I don't think the Cupid notifies people anymore when someone rates them 4 or 5 stars. Plus you can no longer see your own list of starred people. They keep changing features around.
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Old 04-06-2014, 08:01 PM
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I don't think the Cupid notifies people anymore when someone rates them 4 or 5 stars. Plus you can no longer see your own list of starred people. They keep changing features around.
I get a notification only if I 5* and the other person 5*s back. I'm able to see whom I starred under "quick matches".
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Old 04-06-2014, 08:20 PM
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Every dating site I have ever used has an area for relationship status in the profile. Granted, OKC has had recent updates so it is not visible for everyone who hasn't updated their profile since the updates, but in most cases it says "single" or "married" or "available" or something to that effect. What do you put in those areas? If someone says single, then they have answered the "what is your relationship status" question already so I wouldn't bother. If it's left blank, then sure... Ask.
Today I noticed a new status OPEN RELATIONSHIP on okc, so I'm now updated to that from married.
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Old 04-07-2014, 03:39 AM
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Today I noticed a new status OPEN RELATIONSHIP on okc, so I'm now updated to that from married.
I was actually kind of saddened by that change. I preferred available (which is how people showed up if they listed seeing someone/married AND looking to date) over "open relationship."
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Old 04-07-2014, 04:56 AM
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I was actually kind of saddened by that change. I preferred available (which is how people showed up if they listed seeing someone/married AND looking to date) over "open relationship."
Yeah, I wish there was the option to pick both. You can be married and available, and to some people it makes a difference whether you're married or not, so it's good to be able to say so. I like the thing they added on the right better, where you can say you are, for instance, strictly non-monogamous.
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