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Old 08-30-2009, 01:15 AM
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very true!
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Old 08-30-2009, 01:17 AM
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I don't mean to sound so positive when I'm really feeling cynical and snarky.
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Old 08-30-2009, 01:25 AM
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Don't worry..I'm feeling pretty cynical myself LOL!
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Old 08-30-2009, 01:26 AM
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if life gives you lemons make lemonade right?
I prefer breaking out the salt and tequilla.

Mono, I hope you don't think of what I'm doing as serious flirting or intimidating. Seriously-not interested in men outside my hubby. You're entirely safe. Promise.
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Old 08-30-2009, 01:36 AM
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My uncomfortability has nothing to do with worrying about people being interested in me LOL! I just find poly environments and sex positive environments threatening. I am working on it though.

This forum has been a very unthreatening place for me to share, unlike what our poly meetings were. It had something to do with not really seeing people and having some distance. It's lost a little of that for me...wait now..it has outgrown me perhaps.
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Old 08-30-2009, 01:39 AM
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it has outgrown me perhaps.
What I mean is that it might be evolving into a level of community that I am not comfortable with. Anyone know of another forum?...just kidding...
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This forum has been a very unthreatening place for me to share... It had something to do with not really seeing people and having some distance.
Yeah...notice how I haven't posted an avatar, my FB account, my name, or my email.....
One couple here has my IM. And they live faaaaarrrr away and have no idea who I really am. I get what you mean.

(BTW-"uncomfortability"? Can I borrow that word? lol)
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I'm honestly completely freaked out by this Facebook thing...the forums have lost a little bit of safety for me for some reason...hmmmm what now I wonder.
I like the anonymity Of this place too. That why I havnt put my "real" name out there. So I can understand this.
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Old 09-04-2009, 02:24 AM
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I actually had my picture on here at first. I don't care if people know. I just like to keep a distance between me and other forum members so I don't have certain emotions related to the poly environment of the meetings I go to.
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