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Old 03-08-2014, 01:00 AM
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"Straight monogamous people have lives. Everyone else has 'lifestyles'." That might be the only thing I got from Sister Wives

But, screw it, I'm not going to call being "poly" or "kinky" a lifestyle anymore. Token gay guy from Sister Wives is right.
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Old 03-08-2014, 05:33 PM
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Well, good. Polyamory is more of a relationship-style or love-style.

I know swingers use the euphemism as "we are in the lifestyle." But there are so many factors that truly make up a lifestyle, beyond who you love or fuck (or tie up or spank).
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Old 03-08-2014, 08:58 PM
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Oh you will probably love this thread, OP:

What is this "lifestyle" you mention?
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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