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Old 03-28-2014, 11:25 PM
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Nice; not bad.
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Old 03-30-2014, 07:04 AM
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Saw Gwen at work. Hardly said anything to her, but she was busy trying to get some paperwork done. She spent a lot of time talking to another guy, but that doesn't bother me. She later sent me a message through facebook apologising, saying she hadn't expected that guy to keep her busy for as long as he did.

Honestly, there's a part of me that's dreading talking to her now, simply because I have no idea where I stand with her. I know its silly, and once I talk to her it will all be fine, but until that moment, it seems worse than it really is.

Went out for a long drive with Ro yesterday, had an absolute blast, but came home very tired.

Still chatting with Eowyn. We get on very well. Its kinda weird; I think of her as a potential partner (she knows I'm poly and we've flirted like crazy) but I don't have any romantic feelings for her. Not yet, anyway. If she ever comes over that may change (having hugs with someone gives me the warm fuzzies, after all), but for right now, I just don't know. But it's not an unpleasant kind of not knowing. Kinda hard to explain. Ah well.
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It's good that there are still prospects out there, though. Give it some time, poly relationships don't grow up overnight.
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Wow, been a little while.

Haven't spoken to Gwen since the last update. Haven't seen her, but haven't texted her. Thinking I might send her a "Hey, how are you going" message some time soon.

Still chatting on Facebook with Eowyn, getting on great. Flirting quite a bit too. She's still planning on coming over here at some point this year, but it may be October...
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Well, a visit from a long-distance friend is no small gesture, so October's good.

Seems like slow's a good idea when it comes to Gwen.
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Old 04-12-2014, 09:58 PM
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Spoke to Gwen yesterday, seems like we'll be getting together on Monday afternoon.
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Well good, I think -- I hope she'll keep the appointment this time!
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Old 04-15-2014, 12:15 AM
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She kept the apointment, and we spent 8 or 9 hours together. But honestly, I'm not really getting the potential partner vibe from her anymore. Still friends, of course.
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Old 04-15-2014, 12:27 AM
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Zoinks! You've been friend zoned.

But at least she's giving clearer signals are and showing more consideration. And hey, friend zoning isn't necessarily the end of the world.
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Old 04-15-2014, 12:28 AM
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Actually, shes not giving me the vibe. I think its just that after being jerked around I just dont see her that way anymore.
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