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Old 03-23-2014, 01:40 PM
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Sounds like some "little" things are of help. ("What about Bob"'s now on my to-see list, .)
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Old 03-25-2014, 09:39 AM
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You'll like it. Bill Murray and Richard Dreyfus. A great movie.

Anyway, I've texted Gwen and we're going to meet up before her shift on the 27th. Still gotta arrange a time though. And afterwards, I'm going to a meetup with some other poly people in a group I've joined on facebook, so it all works out well.
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Old 03-26-2014, 01:10 AM
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Good to hear; all then perhaps is not lost.
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Old 03-26-2014, 02:37 AM
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And she just cancelled on me again. I'm so over this.
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Old 03-26-2014, 02:51 AM
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Crap.

Well that stinks. Maybe the best thing is to tell her you'd like to meet up but you'd prefer if she could contact you if and when she's ready to commit to a specific date and time and stick to it. Or you could tell her nevermind about the whole thing, I certainly wouldn't blame you.

Wow.
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Old 03-26-2014, 02:54 AM
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Yeah. I should be seeing her at work in a few days so I'll chat to her then, tell her that I'm hurt by all this. But the whole thing is very quickly getting to the point where she's losing her appeal as a potential partner.
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Well, while I can understand a certain amount of indecision, it seems like she's taking it to an extreme. I don't know if she just isn't considering the amount of effort you're putting into it. All you can really do is prepare to make a decision about when enough is enough. I don't know when that is but I'm thinking it will be soon.
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Old 03-27-2014, 03:15 AM
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So, it's the 27th. Going to meet up with my best friend from highschool (he's like a brother to me) and afterwards going to the poly group meet up. I'll let you know how it goes!
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Old 03-27-2014, 03:29 AM
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Sounds good. Stay strong bro.
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That poly meet up was good. Talked about a bunch of things, mainly hierarchical and non relationships. Didn't get home until 11:30pm, but it took me over an hour to get there from my place. Hoping I'll be able to make it to the next one. Also good to meet up with my best friend. He's got a new TV, nice and big. Watched some Star Trek.
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