I tried to message you, but it looks like maybe my account can't do that yet? In any case, it didn't show up in sent, so I'll try here!
I'm also from the Central CT area, relatively new to poly (about 6 months). Short version is that I'm the F addition to a MF couple that I have known for a long time, the M of which I used to date years ago before he met the other F. We are navigating the ups and downs of not being completely out just yet, feeling the balance of our triad, and learning as we go along. I would love to get to know other poly people in the area.