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Old 01-23-2014, 11:39 PM
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Cool Unicorns?

We have been together for three years on saint patties day. We have dated a few people in a FFF relationship and only really date as a couple. We talk and get to know people separate however do everything together. We are here to get some information and see if there maybe are any unicorns out there. We are very open as a couple and love meeting new people.
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Old 01-24-2014, 12:10 AM
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Unicorns are mythical creatures that do not exist!
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Old 01-24-2014, 12:17 AM
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That just depends on who you ask. I mean if you are literally looking for a magic horse then yes they are lol. But if you are looking for that rare amazing person to complete your Triad. Who would be able to be fully committed to two people I beg to differ
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Old 01-24-2014, 12:33 AM
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. . . if you are looking for that rare amazing person to complete your Triad. Who would be able to be fully committed to two people I beg to differ
Um, oka-aaaay, but there's a reason that ideal is called unicorn-hunting!
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Old 01-24-2014, 12:38 AM
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I am by no means claiming it to be easy. . However I do know it is possible! I have seen a few rare cases and know some people VERY close who have found a few great "unicorns" Out there
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Old 01-24-2014, 12:49 AM
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Well, then, I wish you luck. You certainly have a very positive attitude!
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Greetings meganandkristen,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I see no problem in what you're looking for, just so long as that "magical third person" is someone you'll treat well and eye-to-eye as an equal and a fellow human/lover. No fundamental objectifying, 'kay? Oh and have patience ...

The Dating & Friendships subforum may prove helpful in your search. Also I know of some links to poly-friendly dating sites and group searches. Let me know if that'd help ...

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Old 01-24-2014, 01:06 AM
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Our ideal person would be someone 100% our equal.
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Old 01-24-2014, 01:26 AM
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*sigh*

Few women want to be called a Unicorn, it is just so awfully objectifying.
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Old 01-24-2014, 01:28 AM
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And thank you!!! Lol had to take the computer to the Mrs at work so I didn't finish that thought...
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