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Old 02-10-2014, 07:32 PM
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Good point seaking.
  • W = summertimesadness80
  • A = Audball
  • M = well, M
A and W, congratulations on the birth of your son. May the stars shine on him.
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Old 02-11-2014, 03:39 AM
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Hey seakinganswers

This is W..lol
Everything with M is not an issue anymore. Due to her lukewarm attitude and constant skipping has really caused me to see her differently light. I still care for her, but the rest is gone. I'll let A say her side after feeding the little one.

Thanks for much for the well wishes. Its truly amazing having him here
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Old 02-11-2014, 07:08 PM
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Old 02-16-2014, 07:16 PM
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Sorry for lack of posting, just enjoying our new little addition to the family. Other things with the other (M) have calmed down. Though there are texts from her after ignoring her for a few days. Been looking into getting navk into school and quitting, we are hoping soon.
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Old 02-16-2014, 07:31 PM
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Sorry for lack of posting, just enjoying our new little addition to the family. Other things with the other (M) have calmed down. Though there are texts from her after ignoring her for a few days. Been looking into getting navk into school and quitting, we are hoping soon.
Congratulations on your baby! Would love to hear his birth stats.
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Old 02-16-2014, 07:55 PM
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Thank you all for the congratulations! I cant believe our little guys is already a week old! He came into the world weighing 8lb 6oz and 21 1/4"!! All we hear is how adorable, beautiful and cute he is, and we cannot help but agree!

Mommy is the rock star of L&D because I had him completely natural and was calm the entire time! Every nurse who took care of us knew who I was. Lol. I guess they don't get women like me very often.

As for things with M, I feel like W is truly trying to move past this. She and I have had a couple of conversations, mostly just bs-ing. She wants to meet our little guy (and me) so we have invited her to see him, but the flu is going around her house so thats on hold for now.

The focus for us right now is our little family. W is shining as a daddy and really tries to help me as much as he can. It isnt easy, especially since little guy (who we named Chad) wants to nurse 24/7 right now, but it is more than worth it. We are in awe and cannot believe he is really ours!
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Old 02-16-2014, 08:27 PM
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That is so awesome that you are still nursing! Although it's not all the time, my youngest is still a nurser. Not sure when we'll stop but kuddos you didn't quit and awesome on the natural birth (my first was exactly like that).

Chad's a big guy! So cool. And congratulations!
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Old 02-16-2014, 08:42 PM
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Thanks! I had planned out how I wanted the birth to go, and it went exactly how I wanted. I labored at home, was almost an 8 when we got to the hospital and 5 hrs later had my son in my arms! I am planning to nurse him for at least 6 months, but id really like to make it to a year.

He is the most amazing little guy! I look at him and cant help but see such an awesome future.
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Old 02-17-2014, 09:38 PM
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I think Chad's got a lot going for him and will come out well.
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Old 02-19-2014, 01:07 AM
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A year seemed like this huge dream goal when my daughter was born and now I am still nursing a three year old. My gf tandem nursed hers until nearly four and 18 months. Once you hit six months it is cake. I am ready to be done now though. I have to admit that poly and attachment parenting have been a perfect combo for us. Two mommas to babywear and breastfeed, there are almost always two parents present, and always at least one. It's been great for us.
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