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Old 01-21-2014, 12:58 AM
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Well, happy B-day bro! Enjoy the adventure.
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Old 01-23-2014, 05:24 AM
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Been reading some articles, and talking with a couple of people about poly. it seems that most of the articles I read express a lot of joy.

Kinda thinking if Divorce, hatred, lies and resentment are becoming the new normal. Then being in a relationship that hinges of communication and love is not such a bad idea. If having love is abnormal then why be normal.
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Old 01-23-2014, 09:29 PM
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I always did think normal was overrated.
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Old 01-28-2014, 04:02 AM
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Met my potential Poly family this weekend, and had an awesome time. It would seem that the group works well together, but I think it may be time to start a new thread in the relationship part of the forum I was smiling all the way home on my 7 hour drive.
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Old 01-28-2014, 03:08 PM
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Is this the first time you've met up with your ex gf in quite some time? And first time meeting her husband... Do they have kids already?

Too bad they are 7 hours away. I do hope you aren't already planning on packing up and moving in with them, a la UHaul Lesbians.

What are your plans, besides "having a good time"?

Read up on NRE (new relationship energy) the hormonal flood that can make 7 hours of boring road driving feel like sliding on a sparkling rainbow of wonder.
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Old 01-28-2014, 05:52 PM
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there is no Uhaul lesbian action here lol. They are actually looking to move more local to me next year, so we are going to take the time to really figure out if he and I are emotionally compatible.

It is long road, and I need to make sure my eyes stay open through this process.

It is pretty interesting because the conversations I have been having with my female love interest I have been drawing a lot of conclusions that she has already drawn. Of course there are concerns, but as long as we all communicate those concerns and work through them we should grow. However everything has to be organic, and can't be forced.
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Old 01-28-2014, 10:31 PM
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Say, if you do start a new thread in the relationship section, post a link to it on this thread, okay? I'd like to continue to follow your story.

NRE is quite a wave to ride, but if you do it carefully and read lots about it so as to know of as many pitfalls as possible, you might just ride it to the peaceful end on calm waters.

Sounds so far so good ...
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I started a new thread to describe part of my poly adventure.

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...667#post261667
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Checked out the new thread and posted there; thanks for that link.
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