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Old 01-09-2014, 05:41 PM
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Yep. If I was monogamous and was in a monogamous relationship and my partner wanted to try poly and I decided I want to continue being monogamous and they wanted to be poly still then it would at that time to part ways.

Op I would be concerned about them having a secret relationship behind your back. if you choose to continue a relationahip with him be watchful.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:42 PM
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You're not in a relationship with her. He is.
The op posted that they are in a trial triad.
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Old 01-09-2014, 06:54 PM
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The "trial triad" has ended

we are in a monogamous relationship again and she is single.

They are, of course, both hurting emotionally, but have agreed that this was not what they had envisioned.

Thank you all for your advice and support. I really appreciate it. <3
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Old 01-09-2014, 07:04 PM
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I'm sorry it was not the outcome that was what the 3 hoped it would be.

I hope all 3 can move through processing disappointment and can heal and move forward from there to the next thing.

Hang in there!

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Old 01-10-2014, 01:55 AM
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