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View Poll Results: what sh ould I do?
Suggest it. 1 8.33%
Let go 11 91.67%
Wait 0 0%
Remain alone until weay be together one day 0 0%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 12. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-03-2013, 08:22 PM
WhatToDo WhatToDo is offline
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And what happens if she wants more then just the two of you? Or if you want to date someone else in addition to her? Have you had or are you prepared to have those conversations?
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Old 12-03-2013, 09:29 PM
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I still think letting it go for now is better, but that's me. You are you.

You could ask if she is willing/able to consider polyshipping with you at this time. And be prepared to accept her answer -- even if it is is "No. I do not want to consider it. I already know I don't want to participate in that with you."

Guard against wanting to drag it out with endless "What if this? What if that?" type stuff.

Just a "once and for all" and then be prepared to let that BE the once and for all even if the answer isn't something you like.

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Last edited by GalaGirl; 12-03-2013 at 09:34 PM.
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Old 12-03-2013, 11:38 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Dagferi View Post
Polyamory never saves an ending relationship or a broken one.

Let her go.
ditto..
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