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Old 04-25-2011, 06:37 PM
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Not near long enough if you ask me.
I actually told him I'd like to "date", spend the time we're together focused on learning who we each are-NOW-instead of assuming we know already because we've been together 13 years.
I think this is a GREAT idea. I'm nearly of the opinion that it is absolutely necessary when you find yourselves contantly having arguements about "assumptions". Breaking through assumptions that have developed over the years is hard, with valid reasons or not.



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Old 04-27-2011, 04:14 AM
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Wasn't sure where to post this, here or in the weightloss thread. I had to do some bar research for a training manual I'm writing so on a freezing NZ day I treated myself to a nice lunch and warm sticky pudding (in the name of research of course). Then I was walking down the street under cover of shops with the dog to walk it off and not get wet when I came across a gorgeous shoe and handbag store. Guess what it was called - "Chick pea". I don't think you have one of those do you?
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Old 04-27-2011, 04:56 AM
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Nope, no chickpea, but that's cute sage!
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Old 04-28-2011, 01:46 AM
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Just got the text from my daughter that she isn't coming home as planned May 21st. Wants me to ship stuff to her.

I'm already hormonal and having a shitty day.

It's TOTALLY ok that she's decided this,

but today wasn't the day for me to hear or deal with it.

FORTUNATELY-it was a text, so I texted back all the right things-instead of her hearing me go to tears.

Now, I won't see her or the little pea til he's like 2. Cause there isn't $ to pay for the tickets.

Lame.

Life-I know, just life. But, lame aspect.
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Old 04-28-2011, 03:42 AM
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Awww LR - I'm so sorry! I'm sure you were looking forward to having them come home, even for a short while. That sucks.
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Old 04-28-2011, 05:19 AM
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I was looking forward to spending the summer with them.

I had just finished doing all thepaperwork and hoop jumping to be an approved daycare provider for the little guy so she could work too.

But, I love her-and this is what she needs to do, so.... grandma will look at pics on facebook.
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Old 04-28-2011, 02:25 PM
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Skype? Webcam & messenger?

Blah - that sucks. I'm going to have a hard enough time with my daughter 5 hours away if she gets pregnant.
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Old 04-28-2011, 03:44 PM
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I was looking forward to spending the summer with them.

I had just finished doing all thepaperwork and hoop jumping to be an approved daycare provider for the little guy so she could work too.

But, I love her-and this is what she needs to do, so.... grandma will look at pics on facebook.
Aaaaaargh! That stinks when they are so little...change constantly. When will she be able to visit?
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Old 04-28-2011, 04:57 PM
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no idea when she'll be able to visit.
But, if I manage the move out of here, I'll be able to go visit her. My two youngest are going to be DEVASTATED when they find out.
I didn't have the heart to tell them yet.

The baby has already been goign to tears every time she walks past her sisters room cause she misses her.

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Old 04-29-2011, 01:42 AM
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The baby has already been goign to tears every time she walks past her sisters room cause she misses her.

Awwwwww poor babe! The time will pass quickly! It'll happen.
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