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Old 08-07-2009, 01:50 AM
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YGirl,

I really, really like that picture for you. It suits you.

I think it's about time for me to put another one up, myself. I look funny all wrapped in a giant rainbow flag!
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Old 08-07-2009, 01:52 AM
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What, the one of the trailer or the previous one?
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Old 08-07-2009, 01:59 AM
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The teardrop trailer. It's a very cool one, and ... despite my kidding with you in the Fireplace/Outdoor Recreation topic..., you've inspired me to like teardrop trailers too. Really!

Okay, now I have a drastically scale-reduced Paul Klee painting! Some of his paintings are real inspirations for me!
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Old 08-07-2009, 02:09 AM
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OK, cool; but feel free to move the posts that I made that are having more to do with me than with the guy who started this thread.
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Old 08-07-2009, 02:12 AM
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I think it's good that you expressed your feelings and opinion. It isn't a bad thing to do. And we can now just hand this topic back over to the original purpose and stop all our off-topic chit-chat, hoping that there will be understanding.
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Old 08-07-2009, 03:57 AM
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I know they might use condoms, but let's say they're tested and they don't. Even if they DO, I'm squicked out by the whole "double-dipping" concept, and even though I'm realistic and understand that it's not for me to make this decision for other people and their decisions don't affect me, I think EVERYONE should be squicked by it.
K, "double dipping" to me is when a guy puts his cock in one woman and then another right away....like as if they are piled on top of each other or side by side... I saw this at a swingers party I was at and was NOT impressed as the women were drunk and had no idea.... sure, he was wearing a condom, great for him, but the women were not protected at all. Needless to say, it ended my swinging days real fast! Not cool at all!

Ask Mono, I get REALLY passionate about safe sex! You ain't seen nothin'!

When I think of this situation in terms of sharing someone with my little brother I am disgusted beyond belief (squicked doesn't touch it really), I must confess.... still, each to their own.... just not for me.

Anyways.... sorry also for hijacking.

Poor dear, he is probably long gone.

were we too much?
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Old 08-07-2009, 04:29 AM
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Everyone knows when they post something that there is a chance that others will voice their opinions which is why we are on here, we want to hear other's opinions to see how others think and respond to situations. Just because we may not agree with his dating sisters and voice our opinions doesn't mean he should leave, it isn't the people themselves it is just a situation that honestly most people can't or don't understand how someone could get involved in. I for one have 5 sisters, 1 is lez, 3 are bi, and one is straight and honestly I couldn't picture dating any of their partners as I would get an eeewwww factor everytime I thought of that person doing the things to me he or she did to them but that is just me, if that relationship lasts and they are all happy then go them!!! PS. why in the world would she tell her mother? Mine is way open minded and I wouldn't tell her if I was dating one of my sisters partners and things were going wrong.
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Old 08-08-2009, 02:17 AM
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Default Something about glass houses....

Something about glass houses and stones comes to mind here. From what I've experienced many people from the so-called "normal" world would have a a squick and or gut check about most anything they read here. The concept of poly seems to be beyond the closed minded Victorian upbringings most of the western world is brought up with.

I may be a newbie, but I think that if you care for both of these women, then communication is the only answer. But remember that blood is thicker than water. Relationships come and go, but family is forever.

Have you looked inward and examined your motives? Do you really and truly care for them both or could it be a forbidden fruit type of thing?

I imply nothing, I'm only playing devil's advocate.
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Old 08-08-2009, 02:56 AM
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Interesting topic! Just when you think you've heard every possible combination........depending on the relationship the sisters have had prior, this could be really cool or tremendously f'd up. I vote for jerry Springer!
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Old 08-08-2009, 04:59 AM
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Jesus, for a poly discussion board there is alot of judgement going on out there.
Jerry Springer for god's sake? I'll go on Jerry Springer when you people go on Pat Robertson...
Thanks for the advice, things seem to be going more smoothly now. We'llsee. it's a day by day process. And no, theres not much of a forbidden fruit aspect to it. I indepentdently loved the both of them, and felt conflicted about it for years. Recently, they suggested it and this all kind of fell into place.
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