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Old 01-27-2011, 03:20 PM
ladyslipper ladyslipper is offline
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When she opens up to you, instead of listening and then passing on your judgements/opinions, try just repeating back to her what you just heard her say. Then try telling her what your concerns are in a way that solicits her thoughts rather than creating a platform for you opinions.
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Old 01-27-2011, 04:18 PM
gemini gemini is offline
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ladyslipper, thanks for the insight.

my greatest give can be my greatest curse. i am a thinker. i am a decient read on people and an even better read on their actions and habbits. that's how i knew something was up long before she told us.

she hasn't given me any reason to doubt her since we have come closer again. i think it has been me "seeing" things that weren't an issue.
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