i got an issue

[ladyslipper]

When she opens up to you, instead of listening and then passing on your judgements/opinions, try just repeating back to her what you just heard her say. Then try telling her what your concerns are in a way that solicits her thoughts rather than creating a platform for you opinions.

[gemini]

ladyslipper, thanks for the insight.

my greatest give can be my greatest curse. i am a thinker. i am a decient read on people and an even better read on their actions and habbits. that's how i knew something was up long before she told us.

she hasn't given me any reason to doubt her since we have come closer again. i think it has been me "seeing" things that weren't an issue.