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Old 10-26-2013, 06:17 AM
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So, you feel that you are transitioning away from BDSM into a more vanilla style, or just that you have more limits now on how far you want to go with BDSM?

Does your wife want you to develop some kind of style of BDSM that works for your limits and her desires? If so, does that request line up with what you feel you want (for you)?

In my idealistic mind, I'd like to think that one of her guys could be plain old vanilla and the other could be BDSM and then she'd be getting the best of both worlds. But maybe plain old vanilla just isn't her thing?

Is any of this causing any of the three of you to stress out, or affecting any of your relationships negatively? If not, then maybe it's just an opportunity to explore yourselves and have some fun. Perhaps?
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