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Old 11-01-2013, 06:03 AM
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I was referring to Natja.
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Old 11-01-2013, 06:08 AM
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Oohh ... hee, sorry
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Old 11-04-2013, 01:25 AM
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The thread looking for someone was old, not new. And my partner was updating it, looking at it not me. He doesn't kno I posted this thread.
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Old 11-04-2013, 02:54 AM
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And why should I as a mono person have to work thru all that so my poly partner can be happy? Why should I have to suffer, dig deeper, be unhappy so he can be happy?
Unfortunately, we can't change who we are or how we feel. Even as a poly person, I feel jealous sometimes. And I have to work on it. I have to dig down and find the reason for my jealousy and talk it out with both my poly partner and my mono partner. But, if the situation makes you so unhappy and causes you to suffer so much, are you sure that it is worth it to stay in the relationship?

Please believe that I am not trying to convince you to leave your SO, because I'm not. This is something my partner and I had to work through together. Things changed for us when he found someone and could understand how someone could be in love with more than one person at a time.
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Old 11-04-2013, 06:36 AM
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Good post Abebi.

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"The thread looking for someone was old, not new. And my partner was updating it, looking at it, not me. He doesn't know I posted this thread."
Okay; thanks for the clarification.
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