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Old 01-18-2014, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by CattivaGattina View Post
At least it's four boys under eleven instead of four teenage girls.
Lol... true.

I am thankful to have all boys.
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Old 01-25-2014, 09:27 PM
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Here in the Northeast we have had a wicked cold winter. Well on Thursday Murf called his furance took a shit and he came home to the house being 50 degrees we have it set at 70.

Long story short the hot water circulating pump which moves the hot water to the radiators. Butch is awesome and fixed it. Only cost the price of the pump. If he had a plumber I hate to think what it would cost.

Thank god Butch is a boiler operator and has 20yrs experience working on them.
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Old 01-28-2014, 07:52 PM
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Today is a blah day. Tired.. and just want to sleep my life away. This weather sucks.

Missing Murf and Butch working a double last night sucks. Butch is back off to work. Murf is working tonight as per usual. Oh well...
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Old 02-18-2014, 04:07 PM
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Nothing really new or of concern in my life.

Life is good.
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Old 03-09-2014, 05:32 PM
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Nothing exciting to report. Life is good.

Spending the weekend kid free with Murf. Just enjoying a quiet weekend in.

Butch had a big don't tell mom weekend with the kids.
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Old 03-21-2014, 07:27 PM
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While I enjoy spending weekends with the kids at the house I share with Murf, the logistics of getting everyone packed up is a pain.

Nothing crazy or exciting to report. Have our niece and nephews 3rd birthday party tomorrow.

Life is good .. Kind of boring.
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Old 03-27-2014, 02:39 PM
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Spending some quality time with Murf.

Nothing like cuddling on the couch watching bad tv..
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Old 04-25-2014, 06:32 PM
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I am horrible at keeping up my blog.

Really don't have much to talk about.

Life is good. I love both my husbands very much.

Two years has flown by. Right now sitting at my home with Murf doing laundry. He is down at a car swappropriate meet. In a few have to pick up my kids.
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Old 05-08-2014, 03:37 AM
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I am really bad about up dating my blog.

Honestly life is good and I am sure no one wants to read my prattle about how awesome my life is.

Butch is exploring starting a relationship with Ally. A women he has been introduced to through his BDSM circle. Happy for him. Ally is a bit nervous I guess because she has been burned by "poly" men who where in fact just cheaters. I ok'd Butch giving her my cell number to relieve her fears.

Murf and I are coming up on our anniversary. Things are wonderful between us. We have one of those once in a lifetime type relationships. He really is my compliment.

My car has decided that it would blow out the flex pipe on my exhaust last week. So my car sounds like a B52 bomber. Muffler places want to replace a huge section of the exhaust to the tune of $400. When it is just the flex pipe. THANK GOD Murf was a mechanic for 20 years. Along with my FIL. I ordered the flex pipe with connection and gasket from Ebay for $40. Murf's dad has a lift in the garage. So they are fixing my car tomorrow if my damn part would get here. The USPS is driving me nuts. It reached my local post office this AM but did they deliver it. NO. I was home all day and Butch was home too until 2pm.

I would have headed to Murf's tonight if the part would have came in. It had better come by itself tomorrow AM, like my last package, and not with my mailman who doesn't come until 2pm. I plan on spending the day with Murf Thursday and a good chunk of Friday. He has to work this weekend and so do I.

This week I had an interview at a daytime vet practice for full time. Between medical bills, having to buy twice as much heating oil due to our cold winter, stupid stuff and etc. My nest egg has taken a huge hit.

I do most of my assistant work for Reesh from home and in the early hours due to the time difference between here and Berlin. I am bored at home. I am not meant to be a a stay at home mom. Honestly Moose and Squirrel have gotten to be uber independent. They prefer to spend their time with Butch and Murf. I am still working at the emergency vet's office. But that is two Mondays for 5 hours and 12 hours shifts on the weekends Murf works every other weekend. So crazy me is thinking of juggling 3 jobs for a few months.
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Old 05-08-2014, 06:45 PM
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I love your "prattle" and do read your blog. Don't stop writing.
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