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Old 10-24-2013, 09:40 PM
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Life is pretty good.

This weekend will kind of suck. Both Butch and Murf are working.

Poor Butch has a hernia. We have to consult with a surgeon on the 5th.

Murf is good. Got to see him yesterday and most of today. Miss him already.

My life is boring..lol
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Old 10-25-2013, 04:46 AM
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I guarantee your life is far more exciting than mine! It does not sound boring.

I hope Butch feels better soon, and once he has surgery, I wish him a speedy recovery.
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Old 10-25-2013, 12:16 PM
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Poor Butch is miserable. But he is putting on his tough face. Things between us are going well. He has been trying very hard to respect my boundaries.

Murf is doing well too. He was cute the other night while I was at work. He was worried that he doesn't tell me enough how much I mean to him. When I got home from work at 1am on Thursday he pulled me close when I crawled into bed with him and told me he was glad I was home. He was worried about me and doesn't like sleeping without me.
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Old 10-26-2013, 10:33 PM
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Please do not let me be getting sick.
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:13 PM
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Off soon to see Murf.

Still get excited after all this time.
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Old 11-03-2013, 04:31 PM
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I am at the tail end of my solo weekend with Murf.

Friday he took me out to dinner then we had to run up to pick up a car trailer to hall his Camaro to the the drag racing strip.

Saturday we spent most of the day at the drag strip taking passes to get an idea of how the new engine performs. He has an 11 second car which is an improvement. But of course he wants to go faster..lol. I am a strange woman. I enjoy the drag strip. I was so tired when we were done.

Today I am still in my sleep pants..lol.

This week had one hiccup with Murf but we are good.

Butch FINALLY got a promotion at work that is huge for us.
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Old 11-05-2013, 06:18 PM
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Had to take Butch to his Dr's appointment.

He has a hernia and he is having surgery December 12th.
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Old 11-07-2013, 05:34 PM
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I hope his surgery goes well.
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Old 11-13-2013, 12:27 PM
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I hate winter I truly do.

I am quite tired this week. I worked all weekend. 4am to 4pm. Saturday wasn't bad but Sunday was heartbreaking. We euthanized 12 pets.

Butch's back is killing him on top of the hernia. He doesn't have surgery until December 12th.

Murf has had a bad week. Work is getting to him. But we spent yesterday together. Had a nice quiet evening in. I had to leave at 5am this morning to be gone to get the kids off to school. I am going to spend the weekend with him too. Next week he turns 40 I offered to take him out to dinner but he isn't interested. He doesn't care about his birthday.
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Old 11-21-2013, 02:01 AM
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Nothing has really been going on in my life. Just same stuff different day.

Work at the vet office has been slow. I am not complaining. Work for R has been dealing with the marketing of his custom guitar cable. The company has drooped the ball on so many levels.

Butch has been annoying me lately. I just want him to leave me alone. I am resentful that my life has to bend to his all the time.

For example today is Murf's 40th birthday and he is off work. I had planned to see him today. But now I can't because Butch has to work over time. He worked 7-3 came home and had to go back in at 11pm. I can not pick up more hours at the vet office due to his work schedule. He will not stand up for his damn self. The man has a freaking hernia. He has to be on light duty. He keeps doing things against Dr's orders.

Yesterday I was having a bad day. Murf ordered the kids and I pizza for dinner. Payed for it and had it delivered. He made sure both boys had their favorite kind. Butch was out last night. He came home I told him the pizza was a special thing ordered for the kids by Murf. The awhile took the leftovers to work. It was ordered for the kids NOT Butch. So the kids were hurt when they wanted the leftovers. He didn't ask he just took it.
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