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Old 12-01-2015, 02:21 AM
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My Back Story, Part 1:

I did the whole dating thing backwards from most people. Instead of having lots of not serious “high school” relationships and eventually graduating into adult relationships, my first relationship started when I was 14 (he was 17) and lasted 3.5 years. I broke up with him because, well, people change as they grow up and I wanted something different, and we were going in different directions and I was starting to crush on a friend, which made me question whether I should really still be in a relationship with my current b/f. So right after that relationship, I started dating the guy I had started to fall for (who I had come to realize had been into me for the last 3 years we’d known each other) and we dated for almost 2 year from the end of my high school through part of my sophomore year. From mid way through my sophomore year of college until 2014, so about 8 years, I was single. Sure, I went on some dates and had some flings, etc. but I never met anyone I was really interested in nor did I really have anyone express all that much interest in me. Of course, it’s worth mentioning that I gained a bunch of weight in high school and then a bunch more in college. I was always overweight but by the time my last relationship ended it wasn’t pretty. So being single for those 8 years I didn’t exactly have much self confidence.

Well… not as far as appearances go. Let’s be honest, I’ve always been pretty confident in all other respects. I generally don’t gloat, but screw it, this is my blog. I had perfect grades in high school so I got into a great college, I now have an awesome job, awesome friends, people trust me, confide in me, and recognize that I’m honest, loyal, and care about people who show me they’re worth it (aka, not douche bags). OK, end rant about how awesome I am, but my point is that I wasn’t all down and out about my life or really anything else. I just didn’t think I was attractive so I didn’t really expect others to find me attractive. And not that I thought I was hideous, but I’m a realist, and logical. I recognize that conventionally people find thinner women more attractive, even if they’re curvy. A much smaller group of people find the morbidly obese attractive. So basically, after graduating college and moving to a new, but still not that far away city to start the job I got out of college (still my current job but with some upward movement), I basically just focused on making new friends, furthering my career, etc. Not so much on dating.

Feb of last year I got weight loss surgery and besides just being healthier, it was a serious life change in terms of confidence in my appearance. I’m no size 4, but damned if I don’t think I’m sexy now. Haha. Lo and behold, guys started noticing me for once, so I decided I should put myself out there and try to date. Since I’m an introvert, and also not really a partier/bar hopper, I created profiles on a few dating sites and figured I’d go from there. Hey, one of my BFFs from work met her now husband on match.com so I figured online dating wasn't all just dudes looking for booty calls.

Of course, I owe a thanks to my very first b/f for introducing me to Dan Savage’s advice column “Savage Love.” Reading that for years kept me open-minded and very non-judgmental when it comes to relationship styles and kinks and such as long as everyone is consenting. So while I’d only ever had monogamous relationships, as a single and now feeling confident and ready to mingle lady, I was happy to get out there and just date a ton of guys! Not that I was just sleeping with a bunch of random dudes, but I wasn't going to only date one guy at a time until we got to a point where we wanted to sleep with each other or had a discussion about commitment. So my new social life of dating began!

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Sudo: 36, male, dating me, married (but separated) to Peach
Mr. Hyde: 44, male, married w/ kids, my Dom
RCT (or Ty): 30, male, friend, mono, current roommate to Sudo, divorced, father to young daughter (Lizzy)
Dancer: 30s, female, newly dating Sudo
Peach: 33, female, my meta?, non-romantic partner to Sudo, dating/lives with Joe
Joe: 31ish?, male, b/f of Peach, father of Bug

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Old 12-01-2015, 02:24 AM
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Part 2:

So what does all this have to do with poly? Well I start dating a guy through OKC and he lets me know fairly up front that while it's not a requirement, he's got a cuckold fetish, so he encouraged me to basically continue dating while we were dating (yeah, I know, not poly, I’ll get there). Me, having always been monogamous had the thought that I wasn't really interested in sharing my partner with someone else, but this was HIS wish/fetish, and I try to be GGG (Good, Giving, Game… if you're not familiar, turn to Savage Love) and said I'd give it a shot, but that it didn't mean he had the freedom to do the same. And if he wasn't ok with that, then neither of us needed to go elsewhere. Anyway, for completely separate reasons (read: he kept cancelling dates last minute, was flaky, etc.) we didn't stay together that long, but it gave me my first taste of being in something other than a monogamous relationship, and I realized I was totally ok with it.

So I kept dating, and soon after I was messaged by a married, poly guy. I wasn't sure that it had any "serious relationship" potential, but since I was single and enjoying my new-found confidence and I was curiour, I figured "what the hell?" and I responded and talked to the guy and we eventually met up with both of us knowing that if we clicked this might still only be a temporary thing. I got the chance to grill him about what it's like to be poly, how it works for them as a couple, and just absorb a ton of into. Plus, he was really into kink and BDSM, which I was curious about, so I got to learn more about all that too. Basically, this more casual exposure to poly and non-monogamous dating helped give me a chance to see if it was something that I could handle and would be comfortable with. Given locations and how far away he was, again, we didn't date for all that long before things naturally sort of petered out, but given that he was poly, I never really stopped being open to dating other people at the same time and I considered it a great experience that taught me so much. So right around the time that he and I stopped seeing each other, a different married, poly guy messaged me. That guy was/is my current b/f (Sudo). We chatted for a while through the app and texted/emailed/etc. but when we finally had our first date it was, well, incredible! It was supposed to be an impromptu lunch because some other potential first date had just canceled on me and his own plans with his other g/f were cancelled as they actually had just broken up the evening before (which sounds terrible, and he was sad about it, but I think it was inevitable so maybe not that surprising). I offered to be a distraction and just have a fun lunch together and chat if he felt he was up for it, so we did. Well we sat in the restaurant so long that we had dinner there too. Eventually we reached a point where he HAD to go home because his 2 corgis needed to be taken care (his wife was out of town for the weekend with her b/f) but neither of us wanted the date to end and said so. He promised that he wasn’t a serial killer and said I could join him and we wouldn’t even have to stay at the house but could just find another place in his neighborhood to congregate…. He just had to be able to deal with the dogs. While I normally would never go back to a guy’s place on a first date, it was pretty clear that he was telling the truth (and not a serial killer) so I joked that since it was pouring outside and I didn’t want to walk in the rain to a metro, I’d be happy to join him. So we went to his place, I met his ADORABLE dogs and since he didn’t try to kill me or lock me up in the first few minutes of being home alone with him, we decided to just stay in and throw on a movie and play with the dogs. Well, let’s just say that what was supposed to be like a 2 hour date turned into a 28 hour date. He finally drove me back to the metro the next day because before he’d even set up the date with me last minute, he’d agreed to a first date with someone else for that Sunday…. So he kinda had to get me home so that he could go to his other date. What a man-slut, right? Haha. (PS- since people who read this don’t know me… I’m not a slut shamer. I teased Sudo mercilessly after that about being a man-slut, but only in good fun. I was cool with it and don’t really care if people have a high number of partners as long as they’re safe.)

I know I mentioned that his wife was out of town on a trip with her b/f that weekend. So when she called him that evening to ask how the date went.... he was still on it and said so. We were in the car on the way back to his place so he explained that we were headed to deal with the dogs and then continue the date. And when she called him the next morning so she could ask about me and see how things went we were still lazily in bed and he laughed and said "well.... she's still here." Guess he wasn’t the only one being a little slutty that weekend!!

From that rainy night on, we were inseparable. Oh right, this is a story about being poly! So from that rainy night (Sept 6th 2014) forward, we basically jumped right into seeing each other several nights a week, as well as messaging every day.

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Old 12-01-2015, 02:26 AM
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Part 3:

We pretty quickly established a rather routine schedule because that just made life easier. Sudo’s wife, WP, was/is dating a married, poly couple in a nearby city about an hour away. Sudo and his wife have 2 dogs, WP’s b/f and g/f (who will hence be named Boris and Natasha) also have 2 dogs, and I have 2 cats. Needless to say, for those 4 guys, there’s a necessity for at least one person to be home after work and in the evening to make sure animals are fed, let out, etc. For me, it’s easier to spontaneously adjust my schedule. The kitties have an automatic pet feeder, a water fountain with a tank on the back, and the world won’t explode if the litter isn’t cleaned every single day. It became pretty typical for Sudo to stay with me on nights when Boris drove down to stay with WP. And WP usually always went to Boris and Natasha’s place Fri night and stayed the weekend, returning on Sunday. So I had the flexibility to spend whatever time I wanted on the weekend with Sudo. If necessary, there were times when it was easier for me to go to Sudo’s on a week night so WP could go to Boris and Natasha’s, and I could do that and either drive, or take metro and a bus.

So going along with the whole poly theme, as much as Sudo and I were in NRE la la land, I knew that he was never going to be able to give me 100% of his time, so I figured I could date others as well if I wanted. So I did. Given that I didn’t want to stop dating Sudo, I ended up just dating more poly people. Next thing I knew, it was the end of October and I was going on a first date with Pi. I’ll give him that name since he’s a math PhD and a big numbers nerd (I was always great at math, so this works for me). This back story is taking forever, so I’ll try to fast forward some. Pi and I dated for about 9 months until I ended things back in July of this year. I know he really like me, and I liked him, but I felt like the relationship hit plateau status not where I wanted it, and my feelings started to fade. I basically felt myself start to emotionally friend-zone him so I just had to end it. Really, there were a laundry list of little things, any one of which wouldn’t have been a big deal, but all combined just wasn’t working for me. So I told him and it sucked, but we agreed to stay friends. Neither of us are the type to say “let’s stay friends” and not mean it, so we actually are still friends and still message each other all the time.

During all that time, I went on some other dates, but no one made it to b/f status, and frankly, I’ve come to realize that I currently spend enough time with Sudo that I only have limited time for additional relationships if I still want to have time for a social life, me time, and seeing family and friends back in my hometown about 2 hours away. In fact, now that I’m not seeing Pi, some of the time that he got has now gone to seeing Sudo a little more since I used to always see Pi on Friday nights and Sudo was either home alone while WP was with her peeps or he just made other random plans.
So bringing things up to current times. Our most recently negotiated schedule is:

Monday: Sudo and WP are home together, I do my own thing

Tues: Sudo stays the night at my place, Boris drives down to spend the night at WP’s

Wed: Sudo and WP are home together, I do my own thing

Thurs: I go to Sudo’s for the night, WP goes to Boris and Natasha’s for the night

Fri: Usually WP goes to Boris and Natasha’s for the weekend, but she might occasionally stay home with Sudo. If she goes to B&N’s and I don’t have other plans, I go stay with Sudo for the weekend.

Sat: If I’m not already at Sudo’s then I go there for the weekend while WP is at B&N’s.

Sunday: I head home in the afternoon/evening and do my own thing and WP comes home to be with Sudo. Though occasionally shit happens and she’ll stay with B&N. When that happens, I usually stay with Sudo.

Bonus: 1 weekend every month or 2, Sudo will come stay with me and WP/B&N will figure shit out as to who goes where so that all their dogs are taken care of.

I’m going to offer up that instead of a full weekend every 1 to 2 months, we just make it 1 weekend night that is definitely once a month (exceptions because realistically shit happens) since I think that’s more reasonable for all of them to work out given that both Boris AND Natasha can never really come stay with WP overnight at the same time because of their dogs.

So yeah, Mon and Wed are my free days, plus the latter half of Sunday. And then Fri is like a flex day where I often now see Sudo, but it’s not “set.”
In the meantime, I’m back to being open to dating. I’m currently not really trying hardcore on that front. I’m getting ready to have a TON of plastic surgery in Dec after losing 120 pounds to get rid of lose skin and basically finish the last of my body/lifestyle makeover, so it seems a bit silly to go on dates with new people now. But at the same time, it’s not like I deactivated my OKC profile. Any guy who messaged me that actually sent a not shitty message would just end up having to be really patient. Of course, I say that the above is our new schedule, but realistically it feels like we have more weeks where we tweak the schedule than weeks where we stick to it due to 1 of the 5 of us having shit come up like travel and whatever else. But we're pretty good about working out schedule swaps so that everyone can be happy!

Whew, finally up to present time and done with the "intro."
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Sudo: 36, male, dating me, married (but separated) to Peach
Mr. Hyde: 44, male, married w/ kids, my Dom
RCT (or Ty): 30, male, friend, mono, current roommate to Sudo, divorced, father to young daughter (Lizzy)
Dancer: 30s, female, newly dating Sudo
Peach: 33, female, my meta?, non-romantic partner to Sudo, dating/lives with Joe
Joe: 31ish?, male, b/f of Peach, father of Bug

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Old 12-01-2015, 03:03 PM
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So I'm missing Sudo a ton right now. He and WP are in Hawaii right now for work (jerks! lol) and he's been gone since Wed morning and won't be back until Sat evening. I'm so used to not going more than about 2 days without seeing him, so not having any contact for a week and a half blows big time. To make matters worse, I'm fighting the WORST COLD OF MY LIFE! Actually, I'm pretty sure Sudo gave it to me. He gets a cold and has like 3 sniffles and a cough and barely even feels it, but then I get it and it's like Satan's cold and got so bad and just wouldn't get better so I finally went to a Minute Clinic on Sunday only to discover it had morphed into a sinus infection and possibly mild bronchitis. I'm on antibiotics and I can definitely tell that I'm finally getting better, but I'm still hacking up my lungs and going through enough tissues to fill a freaking landfill. When I feel like crap all I want to do is cuddle in Sudo's lap and have him make me feel better. But I can't! All I get are some gchats throughout the day and if I'm lucky a quick video chat in the evening.

Oh, since I realize I sort of breezed right by this point, Sudo and WP actually work for the same company just in different departments. Well, not that it's a huge company, so they have offices a few doors from each other. But since they're able to see each other during the day sometimes when they're not swamped, or grab lunch together some days, etc. I think that also makes it a little easier for them to spend more evenings with other partners and stuff, because it's not like they're suddenly never seeing each other!

Back on topic, I'm sooooo glad that my work offers telework when needed. Normally I don't like to telework because I feel like I'm less productive, but when I'm sick like this I hate dragging myself to the office and exposing people to germs and just being annoying by coughing and blowing my nose around people all day. They don't want to be around that crap. So last week I teleworked on Tues and Wed, and this week I'm teleworking Mon-Thurs. Actually, I was already teleworking Wed and Thurs due to having various doctor appointments, so I basically just added on 2 days. Wed I have a periodic follow up with my bariatric surgeon and then I see my dentist to start invisalign (woooo!!), then Thursday is my final consult with my plastic surgeon for all of my post-weight loss surgery to get rid of loose skin. So much going on! Good thing this has been a slow week at work since I'm waiting on a bunch of other people to give me stuff that is holding up my portion of various projects.

This Wed I was invited to hang out with Pi and his recent.... g/f? partner? I dunno if they've gotten to the point if making anything official. I haven't actually met her, but just to show that it's a small world, I actually already knew OF her because she and Sudo had been talking on OCK and through Gchat for months, but she was living in another area at the time and planning to eventually move to our city. They never did get a chance to meet up, but next thing I know, Pi met her at a local poly meet-up and I guess through talking about people they each knew they realized that there was a whole 7 degrees of separation thing going on, except less than 7. Weird! Then again, even in a liberal city like mine with a pretty decently sized poly community, it's still limited so we all joke that it's an "inbred" community so it's not uncommon for a bunch of people within poly social circles to have dated or at least been on a date with each other or friends of friends. Anywho, given that I'm still on the mend, I don't think I'll be joining Pi and his lady for part of the evening since I'll probably be exhausted by the end of the day (and maybe have an achy mouth from just getting the invisalign?!). So that will have to wait until another time.

Sigh... back to work and slowly feeling less like I'm dying.
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RCT (or Ty): 30, male, friend, mono, current roommate to Sudo, divorced, father to young daughter (Lizzy)
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Old 12-02-2015, 11:52 PM
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What have I DONE TO MYSELF?! I just got my first of 25 invisalign trays. As annoying as the pressure on them is, that's not the problem. Ok, so for anyone who hasn't seen invisalign up close, depending on how certain teeth need to be moved, some teeth have to have "buttons" attached to them. Basically a little nub that is the same color as your teeth. I guess maybe it allows the invisalign to grip the tooth from another angle or who knows what. The important thing to note is that they are hideous up close! and feel horrible in my mouth. And there are 14 OF THEM! One of my teeth actually as 2! 9 are on the top and 4 on the bottom. The trays themselves already ad some bulk to my teeth but having them now have to fit over these little protruding buttons means that I feel like I'm wearing some big sports mouth guard. My speech is thrown off a little bit and I can't complete my full natural bite. AGH! I can't help but wonder how awkward this is going to make kissing. And holy shit are all these little "buttons" going to make my mouth a damn hazard when it comes to giving blow jobs?! The rational side of my brain says that's crazy talk since giving a blow job shouldn't result in contact between a dick and the OUTSIDE surface of my teeth, but still! My teeth look like they have teeth and it just looks and feels scary! How am I supposed to spontaneously lift up Sudo's shirt and nibble on his body like I love to do? I have 50 WEEKS OF THIS. So I can't help but wonder, did I really just drop $5k to torture myself for 50 weeks? Were my teeth THAT crooked? (the answer is no). I know my teeth were crowded a bit but mainly this should help me with other dental issues like cavities and such due to the way my teeth are spaced. Bottom line, I better have the best goddamn smile around when all this is done or I'm going to be SUPER PISSED.

Even more frustrating, I won't see Sudo until Sat night to really be able to know if I'm just way over thinking this. Maybe I can at least I have my awkward speech under control and not feel quite so much like my teeth no longer fit in my lips.

Of course I know that I'm just totally freaking out and over thinking everything and it really won't be a big deal, but STILL!!!

Ok, end rant. I'm excited about my appointment tomorrow with the surgeon for my plastic surgery. It sucks to lose 120+ pounds and then realize that you're still not going to have the body you always dreamed of because you mistreated yours for so long that even by taking the weight off, you're still sorta like a deflated balloon! Well not much longer! And honestly, I don't even really care about what other people think of my body. Sudo thinks I'm sexy and so do any of the other men I've dated in the past. But I will be happier with myself when I feel like this whole journey is completed. Sure, I'll have a few scars, but whatever. I can rock those! And on top of that, I have a 5 pound window that I try to keep myself in as my "maintenance mode." Well after Halloween and all that candy goodness I hit the top of my window and realized I needed to step away from the chocolate! As of this morning I'm only a pound away from the bottom of my window. Yay! Possibly one of the only good side effects of getting sick.

Clearly this post is just going to be all over the place, down and up and down again. I'm really missing Sudo. I want him to be back asap so that I can snuggle him and kiss him and have lots of sexy times. Plus, we both know that once I get this surgery I'm going to feel like shit for a looooong time so there won't be sexy times happening then. We need to stock up now! He was going to make a list of all the fun things he wants to do before I'm on lock down. He might have been joking but considering Google and Excel are is 3rd and 4th girlfriends, probably not. He's such a nerd and I love it!!! I guess technically maybe it's a triad with Excel since I love it too?

I think that's enough random ranting for now. I'm gonna snuggle me some kitties! I should post pics of them one of these days.
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Old 12-03-2015, 01:58 AM
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Old 12-03-2015, 11:37 PM
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Peeps who have posted pics on here.... did you have to screw around with your pics and shrink them down?! I tried to quickly just attach a pic from my phone and it got rejected from the file being too big. le sigh.
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I don't know about everyone else, but I adjusted mine in Photoshop. I just kept making it a little smaller until it finally took it. The actual guidelines it lists didn't quite match up to the number I ended up with.
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My photos almost never post on the phone but the same exact pic will post from my laptop. *shrugs*

Invisalign is hella painful the first few days. I remember crying and wanting to die because there was no way I could do a whole year if it was constant pain! It does stop after 3-4 days, and I recommend liberal amounts of ibuprofen. Then it'll just be a dull ache until the next tray. Then PAIN again, but the cycle after a while isn't so bad - you get used to it. Some trays are worse than others. Put them in at night, load up on the meds and it'll fade quickly. Blowjobs, if anything, get sloppier, which my guys say is a plus. I take the trays off though, during. I actually did damage to my bottom gum leaving it in - the pressure from the penis pushed the tray down and it cut away. I didn't notice it until a few days later and now I have permanent gum recession beneath one tooth. So - remove the trays - just remember to put them back in after. The buttons shouldn't affect anything. I only had 7 on the bottom and nothing on the top though. Good luck!
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I'll definitely have to try posting from my laptop... I just have most of my pics on my phone.

It's a relief to hear that it gets better. Though today is markedly improved. Last night I went to the store and picked up pain killers. All I had was ibuprofen but my dentist actually said that I shouldn't be taking anything that is an anti-inflammatory, so no NSAIDs. I picked up extra strength Tylenol as well as the PM kind. Took the PM at like 7 and that stuff knocked me OUT! I was asleep on the couch by like 8. Crazy!

Yeah, I'll probably definitely be taking them out for BJs, though fortunately so far the trays don't seem to really be messing with my gums.



In other news, I'm kicking myself for telling Sudo about this blog. Not that I don't want him to be able to read what's on my mind (love you, baby!) but I totally wanted to rant on here about something I got for him that I'm thinking I might make part of his Christmas gift. I haven't fully decided, but either way, I can't freaking write about it on here!

Also, I'm a little peeved because I didn't want my blog to start sounding all woe is me just a few entries in, but on top of the cold I'm recovering from and the invisalign pain, my car broke down yesterday on the way to my surgical consult! So appointment had to get rescheduled, and I'm out $500 for car repairs, which was WAAAAAAY overcharged. I have a friend back home that could have done the work with parts for like $200-$250, but the car didn't run and had to go to a local shop, so what was I gonna do? Grrr.


OK, happy thoughts. Life is going to get better. Sudo is home tomorrow and I'm snuggling with my cats and cooking tonight and the weekend is starting. OOO, and I'm making these chocolate covered oreo ball things for a cookie exchange with my sorority alumni group on Sunday. So yeah, enough with the blog pitty party for me!
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Me (Breathemusic): 31, female, g/f and sometimes Domme of Sudo, sub to Mr. Hyde
Sudo: 36, male, dating me, married (but separated) to Peach
Mr. Hyde: 44, male, married w/ kids, my Dom
RCT (or Ty): 30, male, friend, mono, current roommate to Sudo, divorced, father to young daughter (Lizzy)
Dancer: 30s, female, newly dating Sudo
Peach: 33, female, my meta?, non-romantic partner to Sudo, dating/lives with Joe
Joe: 31ish?, male, b/f of Peach, father of Bug
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