Hello! This is my first post.
I apologize up front for being a little vague. In the past, I have been spied upon on forums by people I was dating, so I want to keep this pretty generic to prevent that kind of thing from happening again. I have nothing to hide, but I would like to have a place to talk about this without just anyone associating it with me. I'm sure you all understand.
OK, so here's my situation:
I have had a few poly friends over the years, but have never been involved in a poly relationship. However, the idea of participating in a threesome is intriguing to me (especially MFM, with goddess treatment), and though I have had opportunities to do that, the time and circumstances were never just right for me, so I passed. Also, though I am definitely straight, I have some curiosity about being sensual with a woman who appeals to me.
Right now, I think that I am being targeted as a "blue unicorn" (think that is the term!). I am on only friendly terms with the couple right now, but the guy is kind of putting on a full-court press and seems to really want to get closer. Actually, they both are being super sweet and excited to spend more time with me. At this point, I feel attracted to them both. They have not really been flirty yet, but this is a brand new friendship.
At this point, I guess I just want to know how to prepare myself for an advance, should they make one. My instincts tell me to just go with the flow and make decisions that are best for me as the moments arise.
Any other advice about how to prepare for and navigate this? Thank you!
I apologize up front for being a little vague. In the past, I have been spied upon on forums by people I was dating, so I want to keep this pretty generic to prevent that kind of thing from happening again. I have nothing to hide, but I would like to have a place to talk about this without just anyone associating it with me. I'm sure you all understand.
OK, so here's my situation:
I have had a few poly friends over the years, but have never been involved in a poly relationship. However, the idea of participating in a threesome is intriguing to me (especially MFM, with goddess treatment), and though I have had opportunities to do that, the time and circumstances were never just right for me, so I passed. Also, though I am definitely straight, I have some curiosity about being sensual with a woman who appeals to me.
Right now, I think that I am being targeted as a "blue unicorn" (think that is the term!). I am on only friendly terms with the couple right now, but the guy is kind of putting on a full-court press and seems to really want to get closer. Actually, they both are being super sweet and excited to spend more time with me. At this point, I feel attracted to them both. They have not really been flirty yet, but this is a brand new friendship.
At this point, I guess I just want to know how to prepare myself for an advance, should they make one. My instincts tell me to just go with the flow and make decisions that are best for me as the moments arise.
Any other advice about how to prepare for and navigate this? Thank you!