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Hello all,
I'm Jay. 29 years old, male. I'm a lab technician and photographer. And I love. I was introduced on this forum as j, in Robin's story. I'm Joyce's bf. As I'm introduced as j, I'll stick to the name. Only a bit modified. ![]() My intro might be a bit confusing to read, as I'm slightly dyslectic. And there is the fact my life just did a vertical U turn. And is now turned upside-down. Most people here who say that here mean: eh, I I think I'm poly. Help. Or: my partner has just gone poly. Help. Well, being able to love several people at the same time was not a big surprise for me. That has always felt natural. Being bi wasn't either. Even as a child I was very secure about my sexuality. Some times it was a boy, other times it was a girl I fell in love with. Never really cared for the shapes and sizes of wobbly bits, they're all fun to play with. I'm married to c, my wife. When I met her we found out we viewed love and gender the same way. We have been married for 4 years. Have 2 kids. The relationship is 8 years old. We worked to an open or poly relationship from day one. It ended last Saturday. Not the poly thing, but the relationship with c ended. 3 years ago c and I lived in a triad for a year with a guy m. That triad had a rough start and a violent ending. The middle part was nice and happy. 5 months ago, Joyce and I discovered that the feelings we had for each other for years were mutual. Robin and I had a long conversation in witch at the end I asked robin if I could ask Joyce if she would be my girlfriend. If he said no, than that would be that. He said yes. So did Joyce. c was happy for me. As she knew how I felt for Joyce. On hindsight, perhaps I wasn't clear enough to Robin about what I was asking. I thought I was though. Second, Joyce and I took things to fast for Robin to be comfortable with. So we're taking things slow at the moment. I hope things will work out fine. For everyone. I have already read a whole bunch of threads and got to know you all for a small bit. It's nice to meet you all. Jay. |
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Wow...
Nice to see that you did indeed join the board. But, did I just read that your marriage ended on Saturday??????
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i'm sorry that your marriage ended. but it sounds as if you are still friends, plus you have children, no? best of luck!!!
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Yeah..you did
![]() Was c's decision. Joyce already said it in her introduction.
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well welcome to the site. sorry about the marriage ending, hope the rest of the year has better things in store for you and yours.
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Hey, do I know you?
![]() Welcome. It is a confrontation to actually read that your marriage ended. I already knew that of course, but it still sounds so unreal. I hope you do find some support and understanding here for your situation. Good luck. Joyce |
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I'm sorry Jay,
I missed that post. Sometimes all I have time to do is scan through real quick between demands from my little guys. ![]() At any rate, hugs to all and welcome to the forum.
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I know how that is.
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And so,
You're in this complicated life changing moment. How are you handling it? Would love to hear more about you. ![]()
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