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Old 07-31-2013, 04:04 AM
rikkiandbear rikkiandbear is offline
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Smile Rikki and Bear come of age

Hi there. Our names pretty much blurt themselves out. Hidden in rikki is that she identifies with raccoons. We met four years ago on OKCupid. Rikki was looking for a Dom, I was looking for people to invite to my (then) monthly parties. Rikki was already involved with someone else when we met, but he was not the end all of companions. We saw no reason for her to give up great sex to be with me... OK, maybe that came out wrong, but you get the idea. We agreed to poly from the outset.

Rikki is 42 to my 59. I am simply amazed that she is here with me. She keeps a bear young.

Over the years, we've explored poly relationships with, um, two guys and a woman. Nothing worked out for more than a couple of months. Dunno, maybe I beat them too much.

We have recently slopped over into swinging. It really does not fit well, but we do enjoy the company. Soaking nude with others in a warm pool does not suck. We continue to evolve. I am into like my tenth reading of The Ethical Slut. Lets see, we garden, I do photography and woodworking (cough) and BDSM. We enjoy camping and recently acquired "premium" season passes to Disneyland.

So, we are just your typical, swinging, kinky, earthy, liberal Mousketeers making our way through life.
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Old 07-31-2013, 09:57 PM
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kdt26417 kdt26417 is offline
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Hello Rikki, Bear,
Welcome to our forum.

I liked your intro, it says a lot in succinct fashion. Hope you will enjoy your time on our site, read many threads, and post many thoughts and/or questions.

I envy your good fortune on OKCupid; sigh, I never got very far.

Glad to have you aboard.
Kevin T.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"
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Old 08-02-2013, 08:20 PM
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Whisper Whisper is offline
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Location: East Anglia, UK
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:3 Welcome to the Forums Mr Torture :3

I don't agree with the way you describe yourselves as "typical", but the "kinky liberal Mousketeers" sounds awesome. Dom is epic *sharpens his claws* I pity the fools that think otherwise >;o

I explored the weird and wonderful world of lite BDSM with one lady, and it's left me hungry for more <3 Raccoons are awesome. What else can be said?

Welcome and have fun =3
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Old 08-02-2013, 11:05 PM
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Oh, just the two of us for now. We have a couple of external playmates, but they are not destined to become family.

Some years back when I visited a friend in England I found BDSM there to be quite different than it is here (in Southern California, at least. Seems to vary regionally within the US.) But no, we are not "Typical" Dom/sub. However, typical is akin to "normal," and "normal" has that Zen tendency to hide while you are looking for it.
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