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Old 07-23-2013, 12:13 AM
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Thanks guys all very helpful, bookbug, pretty spot on actually. Gala, you're the best to answer more of this again!

Marcus, its both problems you mentioned. But we discussed not discussing it (again)
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Old 09-05-2013, 07:59 PM
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I sympathize. I could have written much of what you did.
I appreciate reading all the responses to your post.
Sometimes I wish I could make him/them see what it looks like from their words and actions/inactions, and want to change for for the better. Bit I can't and its not my place. All i can do is state my needs and choose to stay, take a break, or leave.
(Right now I'm on a break... Not as devastating as I had anticipated because I have self esteem these days).

Hugs to you and hope your road smoother out sooner than later.
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Old 09-06-2013, 06:31 AM
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Why is your partner telling his wife you are loud in bed? That's pretty insensitive and just icky.

You don't have to like her, you aren't banging her, are you? You date him, not her.
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Old 09-06-2013, 12:49 PM
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this post is over a month old...and things have kinda changed since then. We still arent friends, but it doesnt matter to me anymore cause he is awesome.

I also kinda wish this one wasnt here...as hes now on the forum and id rather he didnt read this. lol.
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Old 09-06-2013, 01:30 PM
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Still, why is he telling her you are loud in bed?
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Old 09-06-2013, 02:04 PM
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I hear j when she has sex with N. It doesn't bother me but I can see how it would if it was someone who is insecure.
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Old 09-06-2013, 02:25 PM
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I hear j when she has sex with N. It doesn't bother me but I can see how it would if it was someone who is insecure.
We arent at a place where we'd be having sex in the same house, but i do wonder sometimes if we'll get there. it would make things easier
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