dating and married how to give that comfort
So started dating a new guy and M is totally cool with it and even helps with dinner so can go out earlier then after kids are down. New guy JW at 1st seemed really cool with everything and enjoyed it but is now making comments about how it's something to get use to as he's never dated a married woman. I've made the comments in joking at least you don't have to worry about an angry husband coming after you haha. i don't believe he found it all that funny.
so my question is how do you comfort someone about this or do you just let the card lay and either they get over it or move on?
We've offered M and JW a night of drinking and hanging out either just them or all of us... but JW isn't sure about that. not sure what to do...