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Old 05-12-2013, 07:02 PM
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I'm 18 and trapped in a small town with a small town mindset. I have been in a relationship for three years with my boyfriend, who I'll call Locke; Locke is 19, female, and transgender. I am 18, female, and pansexual.

We have a hard time explaining this to our friends, so we just don't. She's my best friend, but recently I've found myself needing,.. More.

See, I have a bad habit of falling in love. With lots of people. I'm not promiscuous, indecisive, or disloyal; I just... Love everyone. Recently, I've fallen for one of my close friends. I want a poly relationship, but Locke isn't sure yet.

This is my story, I suppose. Nice to meet you.

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Old 05-12-2013, 08:23 PM
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Hi DiKi,
Welcome to our forum.

I hope you get things worked out with Locke, and find a solution to your trapped-in-a-small-town situation. If there's anything we can do to help, let us know. Sometimes it helps just to have a listening ear, which you might not get as much of in "meatspace." One of the important reasons why this website exists.

Have a look around at our various threads, and let us know of any thoughts or questions you may have. Glad to have you aboard.

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Old 05-13-2013, 08:21 PM
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Hi Diki,

We are in a small town with a small conservative Christian mindset, so I understand how hard being out in the open can be. But you owe no one an explanation either.

You'll find a lot of information here that should be of help. Communicate openly with your partner is the best advice I've ever been given. Honesty and communication are very important.

Nancy
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