Lurker turned into member

[RfromRMC]

Hello. Been reading for months but now I think I should join...seeing as now I think I've finally gotten enough experience in polyamory to know how to talk about it.

I'm "R" and in a MMM polyfidelitous triad with my partners M and C. (Thus my name, RfromRMC.) We have been together officially as a triad for about two years, though were in a V-style dating situation for a little before that.

At the time, I just thought M was greedy...didn't know about this polyamory thing much! But now our V-turned-triad is pretty stable and I think we're over the rocky period.

We live in a modest house in a moderate-sized city in North Carolina with our three dogs and a cat. It's crowded and for sure we're learning that polyamory isn't easy when there's a lack of space....but we're making the best of it!

The craziest thing about being both gay and poly is Coming Out a second time. Yikes. I think I saw a "Coming Out" thread, so I'll have to add my story there soon. Suffice to say: Most akward Christmas ever!

Look forward to talking to y'all more.

[nycindie]

I love your sense of humor, which comes across easily in your writing. Welcome!

[eklctc]

Welcome to the forum, R. I look forward to watching your journey.

[RfromRMC]

Originally Posted by nycindie

I love your sense of humor, which comes across easily in your writing. Welcome!

Thanks!
Many people don't get my sense of humor so it's great when someone does!

[OneUncagedBird]

welcome, welcome, welcome! Lol, couldn't resist. Hope you like it here. It is fun and challenging and very informative and a little voyeuristic to be sure. I love to watch everyone's journey and learn about them and myself. Hope it will be the same for you.