Hello all. I guess I should have come here first and introduced myself. Sorry. I've been married 3 years, been with her for 10 and have a 9 year old boy. My wife has come out and told me she wants to be polyamorous. I did not receive it positively at first but I am coming around. I am realizing that I don't really want to monogamous but I am having trouble with jealousy, depression, insecurity and co-dependency. I have come here for advice, friendship and growth. I am ready to learn and to become the person that I want to be... someone who loves himself and loves others fully and unconditionally.