Peace and joy and love

[Derbylicious]

No objections from me .

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by Derbylicious

No objections from me .

And done!! It's the album cover

[Derbylicious]

I feel like I haven't been much of a partner lately. Work and the board for derby have been all kinds of busy and because things have been going along so well I haven't really been paying much attention. And so here I am all of a sudden realizing I haven't had much in the way of real connection time with either of my loves. I miss them (even though I have been in the same physical space as them).

My husband and I have let our structure of taking some time each night after the kids go to bed to talk to each other go. For a long time it didn't really seem like we had much to say of any importance (because things are going well). But that really isn't the point, the point is to stay connected.

RP and I have never had set date nights. So there are times when we go a couple of weeks without spending any one on one time with each other. electronic communication is a good thing but it doesn't really fill that gap.

So I think it's time to get out the calendars are set some real times for things. I'm going to plan the pants off some date nights

[TruckerPete]

Originally Posted by Derbylicious

I'm going to plan the pants off some date nights

Pants off date nights? Those are good times!

Yes, I am totally reading what I want to see.

[Derbylicious]

Originally Posted by TruckerPete

Pants off date nights? Those are good times!

Yes, I am totally reading what I want to see.

You want to see me with pants off?

[TruckerPete]

Originally Posted by Derbylicious

You want to see me with pants off?

Wait, I think I'm supposed to buy you a drink first!

[Derbylicious]

I was just checking out the wall on fetlife and came across a conversation that I was interested in that one of my friends had commented on. It was in a single open and/or poly group. Anyway about half way down the page there was a comment from my best friend's ex husband. This is someone who I'm really not comfortable sharing a social circle with. This city is far too small. I know I sound a bit like a big baby "these are my friends, go and find your own". I guess there really isn't anything to worry about yet since he has yet to show up at any events I go to.

[Derbylicious]

Today has been interesting. I almost got to work and then got a call from my husband. He had taken a spill off his motorbike on his way to work and was in the hospital. So I spent most of my day there. My husband had left his bike by the side of the road and when I got there he was wondering how he was going to take care of it. So I called RP and Mono. They were fantastic, I dropped off the keys and now the bike is safely at their place. I'm so thankful that it was one less thing to worry about. I'm so greatful to have such wonderful people in my life.

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by Derbylicious

I'm so greatful to have such wonderful people in my life.

Having extended tribal family (ETF) has proven to be an excellent source of support on more than one occasion. I was quite proud of how we came together today, each of us doing what we could.

Now if I can just get over the guilt of riding another man's bike.....funny because I live with my girlfriend and her husband

I hope he gets well soon and gets back on the road. We've got some riding to do!

[Derbylicious]

And I have a new jacket to wear