is this in my genes?

[O2everything]

Good Morning Everyone!

Hope you all had a good Thanksgiving or whatever you may have had last night.

Lately, I have had problems with my mono lesbian relationship (I am sure you all know that lesbians can have problems in bed, right?). Well, my therapist recently told me about a particular author of a book concerning imago therapy and sex. Last night while my monogamous lesbian partner was happily cooking and drinking by herself, I started researching what my therapist had told me, and I found this forum! My parents were swingers in the 80's and still loved each other very much; that is all I knew. This may be just what the doctor ordered ( ) for me. I am not sure yet, but I thought I would at least introduce myself.

Howdy!

[Somegeezer]

I don't believe something like this is in the genes, but certainly it could help you understand it a lot better. =] I never had anyone in the family who was a swinger or poly themselves, so I'm definitely sure it's not "in the genes".

Welcome to the site though. I've found it to be quite welcoming to myself already. =]