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Old 10-10-2010, 10:22 PM
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When you ask for advice-take time to ensure that the people you listen to are ACTUALLY NEUTRAL.
Yes, it's always best to find those people who have no dog in the fight. I suspect those people are more likely to see underlying issues and not get hung up on the superficial stuff.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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Old 10-10-2010, 11:50 PM
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When you ask for advice-take time to ensure that the people you listen to are ACTUALLY NEUTRAL.

Taking advice from someone who has an agenda or see's one side more strongly than another is just asking for a time bomb to go off in your life.
Well, maybe, sometimes, sorta, kinda....

Also, be very wary and skeptical toward people pretending to be both human and "neutral" (neutered?). Human persons are, by nature, opinionated. Get over it.

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