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09-27-2011, 02:36 AM
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 Tabi-cat LOVES the fights. And her hubby does too. They are really cool. The only issue that Kandy and I have, is that they both smoke.  And we don't. Well, we can live with it, as they are pretty respectful about it. We don't gripe about it, but have let them know we don't smoke....anything....and they smoke pot too. So....yeah.....BUT....For Kandy and I, we feel that smoking pot is their choice even if it's not ours. We also feel that pot is something that should be legalized even though we don't smoke it. So....yeah.We're trying to plan out next weekend with them in our town. We're thinking about going kayaking and possibly camping afterward or a hotel.
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10-01-2011, 02:23 PM
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Yay! Tabi-cat and Boogie are coming over to our town tonight!
 We are planning on going out to a karaoke bar, and possibly play some pool. We are also planning on going out to dinner and messing with the waitress. hehe!
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10-01-2011, 06:48 PM
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If you plan on "messing" with her, you better leave at least 25% tip. Servers put up with enough shit without people deliberately "messing" with them. Also, she may not even notice or give a crap, but you should still tip generously if you plan on using her for your little self-entertainment caper.
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10-01-2011, 08:07 PM
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Neon, I ALWAYS leave a generous tip. Example-last time I was at winghouse for the fights, our bill was only $16. I left a $15 tip.
I dont know the waitress at all, but if she's a sport, it could be very profitable. if not, she will still get a decent tip provided the service is decent. I used to be a server years ago. So I understand.
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10-01-2011, 08:51 PM
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Here's a blog you might like: http://thebitchywaiter.blogspot.com/ (I am a little hyper-sensitive to people treating servers with respect because my 19 year old cousin recently started waiting tables and she is not the most "street-savvy" person I've known of at her age, so I'm imagining you "messing" with her and it doesn't make me feel - how would River say - "charitable".) Last edited by NeonKaos; 10-01-2011 at 08:55 PM.
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10-01-2011, 11:07 PM
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10-01-2011, 11:18 PM
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Neon, I wasn't meaning anything too mean. We were thinking just show up with our spouses, kissing on our spouses. Then, my wife goes outside with tabi-cats hubby, and tabi-cat and I get all kissy kissy in front of the waitress and give her a shhhh thing. LoL then, when our spouses come back, shower them with affection. I suspect the waitress will play along or just not care. I'm not mean. ;-)
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10-02-2011, 01:34 PM
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Oh, 2 mono couples out on a date. Uh oh, one from each couple goes outside and the other 2 cheat and give me the shh sign. Oh, the other 2 are back and the cheaters go back to being with their spouses. So... if the waitress notices, she sees cheaters. Why involve a 5th party, and make her think you're cheating on your wife? Sounds kinda cheesy to me. Why not just kiss both women, and Kandy kisses both men, and let the waitress think you're swingers or poly, which is the truth? Hell, if you really want to be confusing the waitress, why don't you kiss Boogie? 
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