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Old 09-06-2010, 01:16 PM
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Sigh...a lot of things going on here...but...I will live another day...I will advance forward and not fall back...I am a martial artist and I will fight and fight and fight until I simply can't fight anymore. However, I'm not fighting to keep a relationship going that is only going to go one way. Know what I mean?

Yes, the love is given and returned, but the other part won't fight the same way, for the people they want. When someone is not as passionate about a relationship as the other, the other person must either be patient and wait...or move on. I'm tired of being abused, and am moving on.

I'm SO fortunate that I'm married to my wife....At least SHE has her head on right! LOL She rights me during the storms of my life and keeps me on course. How luck am I?
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Old 09-06-2010, 02:46 PM
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"It is better to have loved and lost than to live with the psycho for the rest of your life."
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Old 09-07-2010, 01:36 AM
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Maybe loving simply shows us what is possible. For me, I would have never believed it if I didn't experience this last round of love/lust/NRE....whatever the fuck it was! It was so sensational. I will be much more receptive to all forms of love in the future, should she ever come knocking on my door again!
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Old 09-07-2010, 01:45 AM
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Thats awesome Pollypocket!

I wish I were as forgiving....or whatever....as you are. I have decided to close the doors and not allow myself to be put into such a situation again. It's too painful to everyone involved. Myself included.
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Old 09-07-2010, 02:55 AM
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I will be much more receptive to all forms of love in the future, should she ever come knocking on my door again!
Clarification....'she' does not equal 'C', 'she' equals LOVE....er, it may be 'he'.
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Old 09-07-2010, 10:54 AM
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Thats ok Pollypocket. My statement about your being forgiving still stands.
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Old 09-07-2010, 06:39 PM
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"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened." Dr. Seuss

Ok i know a bit tripe, but having just lost someone I loved very dearly this is how im trying to look at that relationship and life. Maybe its of little help, but it helped me. I have lost others i loved dearly as they went down their own paths. Im pretty sure this probably will not be the last loss- although i hope so. However, I remember them all with love and not bitterness. I feel that is a plus.

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Old 09-08-2010, 01:53 AM
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That actually DOES help a bit. Thank you.
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