Thank you for your reply. I appreciate the thoughtful advice all have had to offer thus far. It seems as though a common theme from all who have replied is that the relationship between my husband and this other woman not continue to get more involved until she talks with her own husband. We've discussed this and I believe he is willing to put things on hold to give her time to explain to her own spouse what is happening and how she is feeling. I agree that if that doesn't happen, then it could quite possibly destroy the one thing he's trying to establish both between her, but also our own marriage. I love my husband very much and want his happiness. I will continue to search these blogs to seek the advice and counsel of those who wish to offer it. Thank you again for your words. They come as some comfort to me and I appreciate them.