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Old 01-14-2011, 08:31 PM
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You know I am here for you; and you know it isn't "poly" that is hurting you. Love is not the enemy. Insecurity is. Anxiety is. Lack of balance is. Keep working on you. Hugs darlin!
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:06 AM
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I will be having lots of ups and downs. It happens to me. As I figure things out and listen, I will come along finally. Excuse the negativity, it is, unfortunately, part of my processing. I tend to keep it close to myself, but I haven't been able to.

I will be fine, I do have hope and I am ... more sure of things. Thanks for the support guys, it really does help. I am not sure I can explain all the details of what happened with me, but I can sure tell you it involves a tremendous amount of personal growth.

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Old 01-15-2011, 01:09 AM
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Personal growth is hard work.

We'll love ya for it, through it and because of it too.

XOXOXOXOOXOXOX
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:19 AM
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What LR said. With a blow this big, some negativity can only be expected. HUGS!
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:44 AM
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Old 01-15-2011, 02:40 PM
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I will be having lots of ups and downs. It happens to me. As I figure things out and listen, I will come along finally. Excuse the negativity, it is, unfortunately, part of my processing. I tend to keep it close to myself, but I haven't been able to.

I will be fine, I do have hope and I am ... more sure of things. Thanks for the support guys, it really does help. I am not sure I can explain all the details of what happened with me...
I wish you'd try! Air it out, man!
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Old 01-15-2011, 02:57 PM
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You might need to wait for things to be clearer in your mind, but either way, I know we hear would like to hear about it and try and support you the best we can.
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Old 01-15-2011, 03:02 PM
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As I'm sure you've read here, and elsewhere, many times. Take your time, process, learn from this.

You will come out the other side stronger and wiser. Just keep taking those baby steps, one day at a time, one hour or minute at a time if need be. Do what you need for you.

Many hugs & the invite (although it's usually tacit) to come & visit!
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Old 01-15-2011, 08:15 PM
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I am not sure I can explain all the details of what happened with me, but I can sure tell you it involves a tremendous amount of personal growth.
Careful dude...you have enough trouble with low ceilings as it is!
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Old 01-15-2011, 08:29 PM
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Careful dude...you have enough trouble with low ceilings as it is!
You should see me in an italians' home in the basement...ouch.!!!
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