Hello from the UK (Midlands)

[marriedcouple]

Hi everyone,

We are a married couple in the UK and have swung in the past but now realized that it's not for us. We don't know really where to start to be honest and finding a bisexual/curious man to join us seems impossible.

Hopefully joining this site will be a step in the right direction

[kdt26417]

Greetings marriedcouple,
Welcome to our forum.

We have a Dating & Friendships subforum that might be helpful to you, plus there's a few external sites:

http://www.pof.com/
http://www.okcupid.com/
http://polyamory.meetup.com/
http://www.polymatchmaker.com/
http://polyevents.blogspot.com/#localgroups
http://bi.org/uk-poly/polyuk.html
http://bi.org/uk-poly/

Also:

"As for where to meet poly people, if by some chance you are interested in anything alternative like Renaissance fairs, goth culture, sci-fi conventions, indie music, bdsm, or any small fringe group, you will be more likely to meet people who have at least heard of poly and are accepting of it."
-- SpaceHippieGeek, http://polyamoryonline.org/smf/index...57394#msg57394

Even if it's not an "alternative" type group, if there's a club or something in your area that does something you're interested in, you can always join that group and it just gives you a way to get out there and meet people. If you meet someone on a platonic level and get to talking about poly, then they can decide how they feel about it without any "pressure to agree." Then if they do decide poly doesn't bother them too much, and some kind of romantic connection subsequently develops, you'll already have "had the poly conversation" with them.

I know it isn't easy to find the right person; you'll need patience in this process. Take advantage of the opportunity to look around on this site and learn what does/doesn't work in polyamory. Post any questions that you may have.

Glad to have you aboard.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.