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Old 03-10-2011, 03:36 PM
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That's aweful nycindie. I hope you are welcome to go this time when it comes up. It was likely too early when your father in law went. Your ex might not of wanted you to see him so vulnerable then. Saying goodbye properly and letting by gones be by gones is so important isn't it? Derby said that last night. Why do we, as humans, wait until death to sort things out?

Thanks mohegan and karma. LB will love that the people on the computer said that! Heh the message and where it came from.

Hey karma, we watched a doc on "Darkon" the other nigth. Very cool. Thought of you you said it would be cheesy, but we enjoyed it. Any other recomendations to watch?
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Old 03-10-2011, 08:35 PM
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I'm going to be back home this evening and if there is anything at all that you can think of that you need let me know. (or even if it doesn't actually seem like a need but just something that will make yours and PN's lives a little easier through all of this). This conference really hasn't had the best timing. I hate being this far away and not being able to do anything to help you out.
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Old 03-10-2011, 09:00 PM
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RP,
I posted on pn's facebook.
I'm thinking of all of you.
You know where I am if you just need to vent the emotions.

Hugs to you all.

XOXOXOXOOXOX
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Old 03-10-2011, 09:50 PM
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Hey karma, we watched a doc on "Darkon" the other nigth. Very cool. Thought of you you said it would be cheesy, but we enjoyed it. Any other recomendations to watch?
I think we find it cheesy b/c we know those ppl. And it is a lot more dramatic then Darkon really is. I watched alone one night when it was on tv and Karma was out. This was when we first moved here and I was so busy with school I hadn't gotten to know anyone from Darkon yet. It was so wierd to finaly meet these ppl and put them together with the ppl in the movie.
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Old 03-10-2011, 11:09 PM
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Oh I get it. But I can't show you what all can be done with a soft guy-cause YOU ARE MONO.

Hehe, get it? Mono. Hehehehehehhe!
Now just where the heck is the spew alert?????!!!!!

I was drinking some milk, read this & my computer just about WORE my milk! lol
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Old 03-10-2011, 11:17 PM
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Hugs to all of you .
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Old 03-10-2011, 11:20 PM
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Sorry Breathes, I SWEAR it was ALL HIS FAULT!
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Old 03-11-2011, 12:01 AM
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Snicker.

Uh huh, Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

Just cuz he started it doesn't mean you had to continue it .
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Old 03-11-2011, 06:22 AM
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Well PN's dad is on life support now. We are all waiting for his step mum to decide when the plug should be pulled. I feel like I am in a movie... it isn't real. The talk of wills has begun... it will be a long haul... first the man has to pass on.

LB is cranky and sad... kids get cranky when they are sad. He is kicking me and whining and telling me he hates stuff. I just keep asking him how he is doing and going at his pace.

I miss my Mono... but really there is nothing for him to do here. I am so grateful for my sweet Derby and her thoughtful texts and messages this week.

My tribe has really come together for me. I am so grateful.
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