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Old 11-02-2010, 06:51 PM
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I'm glad things are looking up a bit today. I was worried about you this morning when I read your post from last night. You are worthy of love and friendship with no ulterior motives. Anyone who says or insinuates otherwise simply isn't worthy of you or your time!
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Old 11-02-2010, 06:52 PM
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Go because he doesn't see me that way and needs some comfort and connection..

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Old 11-02-2010, 07:50 PM
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So I went and hugged him. He talked of the big sale and showed me the stores ready to go. We chatted and joked with his staff and regular customers, all of whom looked confused. He was obviously showing me off and pleased I came.
When I left he followed me out and held me tight for a long moment. I asked if we could meet up after the sale and he started talking about when . I told him not to think of that until after this week when its over. I said I just miss him and looked at him in the eye? He looked at me back and said he couldn't understand why I would. I asked him if he missed me and he said yes and looked at me like a sad puppy. I said I wondered the same thing he did, why would he? I knew he did and knew we were fine in that moment. All is good and patience is all I need
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Old 11-02-2010, 08:59 PM
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@redpepper- that really sucks with Leo. It sounds similar to my issue- someone using time as an excuse not to be available to you when there may very well be much more to it. Maybe sex is really his main intention but I would not internalize that. I don't know your history but I know you are worth much more than sensuality/sex/entertainment. We all are as long as we want to be worth more than that if that makes sense.

It is so beautiful to have MonoV and PN to confide in and to love you through these instances, revelations, and ponderings. That's all I want- multiple people to share something deep and profound with me for as long as we desire.

I'm sorry Leo is issuing one disappointment after another. *hugs*
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Old 11-02-2010, 09:22 PM
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@redpepper- I definitely see your point about compromise and boundary setting. Thanks for sharing that because it is something I can use whenever I discover the right circumstances for me. I know, I too, would need my alone time in my room. I actually require quite a bit of it since I meditate, sing, practice guitar, write, read, and love to listen to music. I like to enjoy those things within my own space so I can fully embrace my element undisturbed. Plus, I have to be able to have silence.
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Old 11-02-2010, 09:33 PM
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@redpepper- I hope the connection with Leo goes well for you today. *hugs*
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Old 11-02-2010, 09:34 PM
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@redpepper- Yes, I've been playing catch up. I'm glad you have found some peace in this instance regarding Leo.
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So, Redpepper, how did the burlesque show go? Was it everything you hoped it would be?
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So, Redpepper, how did the burlesque show go? Was it everything you hoped it would be?
It was freakin awesome! Lots of our friends were there; PN, Derby and her hubby and his girlfriend and plenty of others So proud of our brave and sexy Pepper
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