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Old 09-28-2010, 03:25 PM
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I see this as going from having a seperate rental suite with a tenant to having a room mate with shared space. Of course I would be chipping in financially.
I'm with Derby, if they want to make an issue of it legally I'm up for a fight but I doubt they will.

Excited and nervous...what will happen, how will it be, will all our needs be met, is it going to work....ohhhh soo many questions
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Old 09-28-2010, 03:40 PM
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Exactly SNeacail. However will she see that? I don't know. Only if I tell her a round about version of what will happen. She wasn't too happy we asked her to leave. She seems happy now though. It depends if she wants to fight it I guess. Little does she know she can get is through the polygamy law here too. I don't want to tell neighbors too much as they all could. Its about to become in the spot light. I'd rather stay quiet and say its my suite and Mono is moving in with me. The rest is only our business until the law changes.
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Old 09-28-2010, 03:51 PM
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I guess the only thing I would mention is that you are excited to finally get a studio and a place to set up things that have been in storage for years. You may even mention you have considered putting in a door at some point. Anything more may appear defensive as if you are expecting a fight. Besides, it's really none of there business.
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Old 09-28-2010, 04:08 PM
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I guess the only thing I would mention is that you are excited to finally get a studio and a place to set up things that have been in storage for years. You may even mention you have considered putting in a door at some point. Besides, it's really none of there business.
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So it looks like I am going to say that we are opening up the house and Mono will be our roommate. Mono suggested this and now I just have to check with PN before saying it. Phew...
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Old 09-28-2010, 04:11 PM
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Hey RP - as long as you are using the space for yourself or your family - you can legally evict.

You're going to have a room down there, correct? Your room, you're using it for yourself

And it really is none of their business who else lives there.
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So it looks like I am going to say that we are opening up the house and Mono will be our roomate. Mono suggested this and now I just have to check with PN before saying it. Phew...
Roommate with benefits?
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So it looks like I am going to say that we are opening up the house and Mono will be our roommate. Mono suggested this and now I just have to check with PN before saying it. Phew...
PN is in.... so bring it!
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PN is in.... so bring it!
Yay! Let's get on with the good stuff of exploring this change and not worrying about what the neighbors think
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