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Old 09-16-2010, 02:26 AM
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We've got to stop talking about a house warming party. I'm already stressing about people invading my space LOL
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Old 09-16-2010, 02:48 AM
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still in progress. have to get the old energy out of there and fuse it with new energy from friends!
Ummmm yeah, how's about we have it upstairs. I like the energy in my space to be very limited. Or we could put up energy shielding screens or something on the way to your room. This is causing me serious anxiety.
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Old 09-16-2010, 05:45 AM
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of course we can have it upstairs... everything is up for negotiation. People in our/your space is a part of that. I won't be forcing anything on anyone. We shall talk more...
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Old 09-16-2010, 05:50 AM
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of course we can have it upstairs... everything is up for negotiation. People in our/your space is a part of that. I won't be forcing anything on anyone. We shall talk more...
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Old 09-16-2010, 05:56 AM
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It only took a year for anyone besides you, Polynerdist and your son to be invited into my apartment....I'm sure you were amazed when I asked if Derby was coming over to get ready for the BDSM event! I spent another year where only you came into my place at the mountain. I am obviously quite a freak..but I am your freak....every last and little bit yours
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Old 09-16-2010, 02:00 PM
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It's completely ok to be posessive about your space. People do bring energy with them and can leave it behiend. I found your place to be very scerene and I think maybe it's because there aren't a lot of people coming though it. (but then again it could just be that you don't have any stuff! ).
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Old 09-16-2010, 02:32 PM
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It only took a year for anyone besides you, Polynerdist and your son to be invited into my apartment....I'm sure you were amazed when I asked if Derby was coming over to get ready for the BDSM event! I spent another year where only you came into my place at the mountain. I am obviously quite a freak..but I am your freak....every last and little bit yours
I get extremely nervous if even the doorbell rings and we aren't expecting anyone ... *HUG*
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Old 09-16-2010, 03:08 PM
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RP, how about a slumber party with your son after you're all settled in. Movies, snacks, a couple of lazy games.

Mono, I so know how you feel about people in your space. Bud's friend may be sleeping over saturday night and I hate it, but I agreed. I just let him know I will be sleeping in my daughter's room that night because I don't know him like he does. I'm in for a very long sleepless night. It's no offense to him. I only trust a handful of people when I'm awake let alone when I'm not.
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Old 09-16-2010, 04:11 PM
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I find it interesting that I will now be living with TWO men who are not into guests. While appreciate that they like their haven, I love guests!
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I find it interesting that I will now be living with TWO men who are not into guests. While appreciate that they like their haven, I love guests!
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